POG/Pumpchasers is so trash now :wow:

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That's some real talk.

Which is why I'm always :patrice:when I see chicks get on that "Ride or die" shyt with "aspiring" rappers.etc..etc.

I see chicks from around my way working their lil call center jobs, getting overtime, trying to "hold their nicca down".

While a guy might appreciate it, somewhere in the back of his mind, he might see you as a low value chick.A mere worker bee, not a queen.The chick he could get at his lowest/most broke.

Soon as his status spikes upward, it just magnifies.The fairytale is uncovered and you're sitting there looking like a pack of Ramen noodles to him.You were quite delicious and helped sustain while he was broke, but now his taste buds are lil more epic.

Thanks, but uh, peace!!


Now there's some exceptions, but I'm just saying....:hubie:.......

:ohhh:. This is the second time I've read something like this on The Coli.
 

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He better be 100% sure he doesn't ever want marriage and children with her before another man swoops in quick and gives her what she desires. :francis:
 

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Wow, when and why did he and Denise break up? I unsubbed from him months ago. But ya know, some advice I got a while ago was not to be with a guy when he's down and out and be trying to build with him. You busy trying to be a ride or die but men have big egos. Sometimes it hurts them knowing that you saw them at their worst. You saw them when they we're broke, couldn't pay bills, no job. Some men will appreciate it but many hate it. So they will drop you when they get big and get another chick who only knows him at his best. This is just advice that I've been told so idk. But the actions of many male celebs started making sense after I was told that... Just rambling

That's some real talk.

Which is why I'm always :patrice:when I see chicks get on that "Ride or die" shyt with "aspiring" rappers.etc..etc.

I see chicks from around my way working their lil call center jobs, getting overtime, trying to "hold their nicca down".

While a guy might appreciate it, somewhere in the back of his mind, he might see you as a low value chick.A mere worker bee, not a queen.The chick he could get at his lowest/most broke.

Soon as his status spikes upward, it just magnifies.The fairytale is uncovered and you're sitting there looking like a pack of Ramen noodles to him.You were quite delicious and helped sustain while he was broke, but now his taste buds are lil more epic.

Thanks, but uh, peace!!


Now there's some exceptions, but I'm just saying....:hubie:.......

"Women settle down when they find the right guy. Men settle down when they find the right time."

My advice to women would be to never settle down with a man who has never explored his options.

I don't think @RoyalQ is 100 percent accurate (shes not 100 percent wrong either) in her comment. I understand where you are coming from but I don't think it only has to do with his ego of knowing she seen him at his worst. Honestly, that would give a man more security in knowing that his woman is with him for the right reasons and that his mistakes aren't the end of the world.

This is what I think it is...men don't use as much emotion in our decision making as women. if a man becomes successful after settling down, his logic (and to some degree, his ego) would be asking him "How do I know she is the best match for me when I haven't been exposed to this type of a variety of women?" It's similar to buying the first car that you test drive.

If a women settles with a man who is ambitious then she should give herself a safety net. Strictly for a woman who is making sacrifices for her dude. She should have some type of ownership (legal percentage) in what she is doing with her dude so that if they break up, she may have lost time (biological clock) but she earned some money. Most women would probably trade the money in for the time/marriage but, it is what it is.
 
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I pay 1200 for an apartment in Manhattan :hhh:
Man!......

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