I think you gotta look @ this w/ more nuance lol. The 2nd dad was killed by a horse how does that make the 1st one a "choice" like you said? She never said anything was wrong w/ the 2nd one.
Tbh, I'm surprised it's YOU saying this. You're usually the REAL
@Voice of Reason around here
I don't have to do none of the sort. When it comes to relationships, we are all allowed to be as discriminatory as we desire. So yes, I would put her in the same category I put all others who have children by
two different men and have never been married. In the end, I view, she should have learned her lesson and told herself the next man will have to marry her before she has a child for him
after she had the first out of wedlock.
So, I would not take her seriously no matter the circumstances of the fathers, because she chose to put the cart before the horse, and carry children before she was married. So there is no nuance to be had, when you look at it all with a critical eye.