Lol, you are a far more generous man than I am. She should have learned after her first. Once she has two by two different men, she has already demonstrated to me that the first one was not a mistake, but a choice .In her defense, she said the oldest kid's dad was her first love so she was probably young, didn't know dude was a fudge packer. I don't know if you can blame the first two on her, because #2 had the horse kick him...
But once you get to your third? It's either you know better and do better, or you really are just reckless...
This same thing applies to men too. And childless brothers on here love to throw in their two cents but you can get a pass, having multiple parents of your kids doesn't mean you're necessarily a fukk up. But if it ain't right with #3, it's that 3 strikes thing...
I'm bout to send this to my youngest kids' mom and have her do one because she on baby daddy #3 now (I'm #2) and reportedly it ain't looking good
This is fair. I think I try to understand that there are situations like, you may not have known your first was gay and then your second unexpectedly died. I do think you have to be cautious with who you're having kids with for sure, but it's possible to have situations that weren't entirely in her control. In this woman's case, the man being gay and the other guy dying, those aren't her fault....Lol, you are a far more generous man than I am. She should have learned after her first. Once she has two by two different men, she has already demonstrated to me that the first one was not a mistake, but a choice .
I think sometimes the old ways were in place for a reason. Child rearing being one case where the old ideas, marry before you carry, would help mitigate many of these problems. My wife and I are old school though, so that is what we did. It has worked out very well for us, and the stats actually support this having a significantly increased chance of creating better outcomes for children than single parenthood does.This is fair. I think I try to understand that there are situations like, you may not have known your first was gay and then your second unexpectedly died. I do think you have to be cautious with who you're having kids with for sure, but it's possible to have situations that weren't entirely in her control. In this woman's case, the man being gay and the other guy dying, those aren't her fault....
100% though, it doesn't take 5 baby daddies to realize you should stop having kids!