She put on weight, and I read this story years ago about his wife. She is not ugly even with the weight just big.
The reality is everyone is not going to be a gym rat.
I would certainly encourage her to get in better shape, but if she was a woman that stuck with me through ups and downs and has been loyal and looked out for me then I would not leave her.
Some of y’all think marriage is all about walking around with some eye candy by your side to take home and fukk like a porn star, but the reality is marriage is about companionship, having a woman that will be a good mother to your children, someone you can depend on to hopefully start to build generational wealth, someone that can can hold down the house when you aren’t around, help you through death loved ones, financial problems, health problems, give you encouragement and support when you are not your best, and help you gameplan through shyt life throws at you.
I’d take a good loyal woman that’s average or above that I have some sexual attraction to over some physically attractive brick house bringing little else to the table.
