How is it disheartening?
See, I don't have anything against women who decide that sex work is for them or guys who pay for these services as long as both parties are on level ground. Meaning, both parties made the conscious decision as adults and nobody is being exploited/coerced. Girls fukk for purses, tuition, cars etc. couldn't be me but that's their right.
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Going over into third world countries where the standard of living for many people is so monumentally different, meaning people tend to be so poor that they don't feel like they have other options or they would be homeless crosses that line. People turning to sex work because otherwise their family won't have enough to eat for the next week or because a family member needs health care etc is horrific and people taking advantage of that is going against everything I believe in.
Being fine with paying a girl $30-$50 for fukking you when you know that that's essentially throwing another human being crumbs for dealing with you makes me sick. They don't care that some of these girls throw up right after they get their nut and leave or have to consume lots of alcohol or other drugs so they con portray to be the bubbly happy chick that's here to give you a good time.
The same way that sex tourism is set up in Southeast Asia and men flock over there to take advantage of the poor, those "men" that fly over there to "vacation" with women and children (!!!) are scum of the earth. Why can't they pay for sex with women in their own countries that don't get neglected by their government to those extends? Because they know that the power dynamic is skewed and they get off on it. Why pay more or deal with other women when there's Ivana who takes $30 who will let you put it anywhere because she's trying to provide for her family. All of this hidden behind the facade of palm trees, "having fun" and just letting loose.