Sorry as a woman that works out 5 days per week to stay top notch when I see an adult black woman that's a BBW (aka Fat) with no children all I can think is "what a lazy bytch!"
There are 60-70 year old women at my gym who come in and swim, do the elliptical, body weight exercises or watch game shows as they walk the treadmill and they look great. We aren't talking about bodybuilding routines (which I do and understand why a non athletic person may feel overwhelmed to tackle physically taxing routings). Just simple I care about my body exercises.
Her arms and lack of definition anywhere on her body means she's too lazy to work on her body and she has a terrible diet. That's with knowing the men that she hopes to wife her don't want to have a fat woman as a trophy on their arm. That shows a lack of ambition and that is a turn off to any man thats out here busting his ass to live good.
She is a pretty girl that has chosen to put herself in the "pretty fat girl" box and sadly that has a very low glass ceiling for black women in the city of beautiful people.
If you look great as a black woman, are educated, don't have a whore past and have your own money you'll be beating famous men off of you. Pretty much every famous guy I know has a form of low self-esteem or narcissicm. Having a woman that other men actually Desire AND RESPECT validates them to other famous men that they are worthy of a woman like her. It's why you will see the Ludas, Jeezy's, Tyrese's of the world marry women with normal careers and no history of being on the scene looking to get saved.
When 99% of the women a baller meets is a gold digger looking for a lifestyle upgrade with panty pictures on the internet, you will be smashed and dashed if you fit into that 99%.
