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I just recently attended my brother's wedding earlier this year and this man had............




wait for it........





wait for it........



no bar, no drinks. I was tight but I guess it wasnt in his budget so I can respect it
 

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If I ever get married I know that will break my fukking budget. Me and my boys drink way too much.

One of our mans put $3500 on the bar at his wedding and I swear that shyt ran out so damn quick
 

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Get an open bar, and only plan to have liquor for about half the guests. Ive been to plenty of open bar weddings and every time at the end the bride and groom are begging people to take the left over alcohol because its tons left. People gonna talk a lot of shyt about how much they are gonna drink at the wedding but when they get there most people will have 1 drink, 2 tops because they dont want to be that person who gets laughed at because they were drunk.

Your best bet would be to get a venue that allows you to bring your own alcohol. A case of good Moscato will run you 100 bucks. So with 12 bottles per case and estimating 4 generous glasses per bottle, with 6 cases you have enough for 288 glasses of wine. Everyone wont want wine so buy 3 24 bottle cases of beer for around 20 a case, thats 72 beers. Then decide on ONE mixed drink you will have available, some sort of martini. Decide on something that uses plain vodka because then you can have cranberry and orange juice too and people can use those as mixers. All that shyt will serve a wedding of 160 adults easily and for around 1000 bucks. Thats more than enough liquor to have everyone right. Dont think you need to drop 3500 without doing the math.
 

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I just recently attended my brother's wedding earlier this year and this man had............




wait for it........





wait for it........



no bar, no drinks. I was tight but I guess it wasnt in his budget so I can respect it

:pacspit: your brother
 

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nikka you are never suppose to charge for liquor at a wedding and u better run out of it either.

You can run out of food but not liquor cause by 11pm no one gives a fukk about fish or chicken.


Yall nikkas I swear :snoop:
 

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son is cheap so i wasnt really surprise :manny:

As a guest of his wedding I would be offended. People drive from everywhere to make it to your special day and you can't even afford to pay for some spirits and beer? I guarantee all his guests now hate him.
 

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Get an open bar, and only plan to have liquor for about half the guests. Ive been to plenty of open bar weddings and every time at the end the bride and groom are begging people to take the left over alcohol because its tons left. People gonna talk a lot of shyt about how much they are gonna drink at the wedding but when they get there most people will have 1 drink, 2 tops because they dont want to be that person who gets laughed at because they were drunk.

Your best bet would be to get a venue that allows you to bring your own alcohol. A case of good Moscato will run you 100 bucks. So with 12 bottles per case and estimating 2 people per bottle with 6 cases, you have enough for 144 glasses of wine. Everyone wont want wine so buy 3 24 bottle cases of beer for around 20 a case, thats 72 beers. Then decide on ONE mixed drink you will have available, some sort of martini. Decide on something that uses plain vodka because then you can have cranberry and orange juice too and people can use those as mixers. All that shyt will serve a wedding of 160 adults easily and for around 1000 bucks. Thats more than enough liquor to have everyone right. Dont think you need to drop 3500 without doing the math.
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Genius breh
 

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Get an open bar, and only plan to have liquor for about half the guests. Ive been to plenty of open bar weddings and every time at the end the bride and groom are begging people to take the left over alcohol because its tons left. People gonna talk a lot of shyt about how much they are gonna drink at the wedding but when they get there most people will have 1 drink, 2 tops because they dont want to be that person who gets laughed at because they were drunk.

Your best bet would be to get a venue that allows you to bring your own alcohol. A case of good Moscato will run you 100 bucks. So with 12 bottles per case and estimating 2 people per bottle with 6 cases, you have enough for 144 glasses of wine. Everyone wont want wine so buy 3 24 bottle cases of beer for around 20 a case, thats 72 beers. Then decide on ONE mixed drink you will have available, some sort of martini. Decide on something that uses plain vodka because then you can have cranberry and orange juice too and people can use those as mixers. All that shyt will serve a wedding of 160 adults easily and for around 1000 bucks. Thats more than enough liquor to have everyone right. Dont think you need to drop 3500 without doing the math.

but I bet most places don't allow you to bring your own alcohol because that is how most places make a chunk of their money.
 

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but I bet most places don't allow you to bring your own alcohol because that is how most places make a chunk of their money.

Ive done some research in the Memphis area and a lot of them will. Its the catering that they fukk you with. Very few will let you hire your own catering company. They hit you with a 20-30 bucks a plate charge for some unseasoned, small portion bullshyt.
 

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Rent out a spot and hire your own bartenders. That is your cheapest option!!!!

Buying your own liquor will save you a bunch of money.
 

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top shelf open bar of nuffin
 
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No alcohol at all. Pass out watch-towers and fanny packs full of snacks. Their eternal souls will appreciate it :lawd:
 

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funny because at the weddings ive been to, when its open bar, it seems im the only one drinking in that bytch. its like everyone's scared to get hammered and be the drunk moron for the night. fukk it, i'll be that :manny:
 

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I went to a dry wedding a few weeks ago. :to:
 
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