Only beta male simps date or marry single mothers. fukk it.

[NoChillJones]

Yes the coli also shames deadbeat dads, but don't let the mom get off the hook because more than likely she knew dude wasn't shyt from the start

No they don't breh, why push this narrative when you know its bullshyt. "We shame brehs, but don't let the mom off the hook and blah, blah, blah".

The issue at hand is RAISING THE KIDS......if the mother is still raising the kid then what person in their right mind would say its her fault the dude abandoned her? That makes no sense no where else but on here. Literally. This board is the only place that pushes this narrative. It stems from this belief of being hard on the black woman cause they are the cause of the destruction of the black race......you goofies have pushed this narrative so fukking much that you actually believe it now. Hence a man walking out on his kids being an after thought, while you point fingers at the woman on some she knew better shyt.......it don't make sense breh.....plenty of cats leave the mother of their children, bu they don't abandon the kids.......it is possible to do both......

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Not every single parent situation means the dad is a deadbeat—my son’s father and I coparent fine. My brother is involved in his kids lives too. My cousin also is involved in his daughters life.

 

[semicko82]

No they don't breh, why push this narrative when you know its bullshyt. "We shame brehs, but don't let the mom off the hook and blah, blah, blah".

The issue at hand is RAISING THE KIDS......if the mother is still raising the kid then what person in their right mind would say its her fault the dude abandoned her? That makes no sense no where else but on here. Literally. This board is the only place that pushes this narrative. It stems from this belief of being hard on the black woman cause they are the cause of the destruction of the black race......you goofies have pushed this narrative so fukking much that you actually believe it now. Hence a man walking out on his kids being an after thought, while you point fingers at the woman on some she knew better shyt.......it don't make sense breh.....plenty of cats leave the mother of their children, bu they don't abandon the kids.......it is possible to do both......

So she didnt know the dude she was sleeping with was no good? He came in the relationship hard working and responsible. Then all of a sudden he became lazy and good for nothing.

 

[International Playa]

I agree and I'm raising another guy kid with no issues but if someone else don't want too it's not coward it's a preference nothing more than that

You missing the point breh, you got kids already, you should be dating a woman with kids. This topic mainly for the childless breh, its non beneficial & usually the woman would have never dated the childless breh if she was childless

Always remember those kids you helped raise will NEVER be yours. They can call you whatever but if their mom is gone so are they. You can raise them from 1- 25 literally get them through college but if shyt goes south with the mom its all gone.

Thats the truth

You rather invest that money & time on your own seed, they are yours forever. Investing in another mans kid is keeping another nikkaz bloodline alive & name forever

People with children should date people with children

 

[NoChillJones]

So she didnt know the dude she was sleeping with was no good? He came in the relationship hard working and responsible. Then all of a sudden he became lazy and good for nothing.

That's a pretty brash assumption to believe that this accounts for all child abandonment cases. I mean it helps to better fit your narrative I get it. The man she laid down wasn't shyt, so its her fault she got pregnant and abandoned..... Hey breh its cool we can believe that every dude that abandons kids are broke no job having losers. In the Coli Fantasy world there is never a gray area, I got you

 

[Bledswole]

Most chicks got kids now a days

 

[Scottie Ca$h]

Im A Young Black Male With A Degree

I Got A Future 2x Six Figure Salary Coming My Way

Bytches Say Im Handsome

I fukk Hoes Left & Right

I Have No Kids Or Responsibility Outside Of Whats Mine

Now Why The fukk Would I Settle With A Single Mom ?

It Doesn't Logically Make Sense To Me At All, Taking On That Burden Would Only fukk Up What Im Tryna Set Up For My Kids/Heirs To The Throne

 

[NoChillJones]

Im A Young Black Male With A Degree

I Got A Future 2x Six Figure Salary Coming My Way

Bytches Say Im Handsome

I fukk Hoes Left & Right

I Have No Kids Or Responsibility Outside Of Whats Mine

Now Why The fukk Would I Settle With A Single Mom ?

It Doesn't Logically Make Sense To Me All, Taking On That Burden Would Only fukk Up What Im Tryna Set Up For My Kids/Heirs To The Throne

Say you meet the perfect woman, like you click on all levels and she has everything you want in a woman. But she has 2 kids....say ages 2 and 3, you would automatically disregard the connection cause of the kids?
Sometimes life happens exactly like that.

 

[semicko82]

That's a pretty brash assumption to believe that this accounts for all child abandonment cases. I mean it helps to better fit your narrative I get it. The man she laid down wasn't shyt, so its her fault she got pregnant and abandoned..... Hey breh its cool we can believe that every dude that abandons kids are broke no job having losers. In the Coli Fantasy world there is never a gray area, I got you

Thats what I hear from single moms all the time "the dad wasn't shyt" straight from the horses mouth. I'm not trying to set no narrative. I hear sob stories all the time and use to fall for the okie doke. Nowadays you can dismiss me that bs

 

[NoChillJones]

Thats what I hear from single moms all the time "the dad wasn't shyt" straight from the horses mouth. I'm not trying to set no narrative. I hear sob stories all the time and use to fall for the okie doke. Nowadays you can dismiss me that bs

Breh whenever you get through lying, its your assumption. And it is a narrative and a false one. And what okie doke? Iv'e dated good women with kids breh......and most of them didn't even bring me around they kids like that. From my experience they don't want "fathers" for the kids, they just want to kick it and hang out or find a connection with someone outsider their homes. Its not like you go on one date and all of a sudden you taking the kids to FunWorld....... You going to get some women like that....and to be honest if she brings her seed around with really vetting you, odds are she ain't shyt. , but a majority of women with multiple kids, get with a man they fall in love. The relationship doesn't work out.....and the they split, and in most cases the fathers split away from the family. They might still be in the kids life here and there....but a majority of the rearing falls on the mother because she takes the kids........it doesn't mean she is corrupted or in a corrupted situation.

Honestly I don't even know why I'm stating this common sense shyt......you nikkas are so full of shyt that I am disturbed I am taking the time to type this to your redundant talking ass.

 

[AAKing23]

This has actually been one of the more sensible, civilized single mom threads made on this site.
Shocking.

My two cents, if I was a man with no kids I do not think I’d seek anything concrete with a single mother. Sexual relationship only.

However, I know enough to know that life doesn’t always work that way. I could meet a single mother and she could just happen to be my soul mate and then bam, I’m in love and technically “dating a single mom”.

It’s not something I’d seek though. Far too many issues that come along with it that I do not possess the tolerance for.

cosign this.


Now that I'm 25 going on 26 I've just come to accept that women I meet are gonna be more and more likely to have a kid as I inch towards 30. And while it certainly isn't what I'm looking for I have to acknowledge that there's a chance I could end up vibing with a chick that may have a kid. Not my ideal situation by any means but I know shyt happens

 

[semicko82]

Breh whenever you get through lying, its your assumption. And it is a narrative and a false one. And what okie doke? Iv'e dated good women with kids breh......and most of them didn't even bring me around they kids like that. From my experience they don't want "fathers" for the kids, they just want to kick it and hang out or find a connection with someone outsider their homes. Its not like you go on one date and all of a sudden you taking the kids to FunWorld....... You going to get some women like that....and to be honest if she brings her seed around with really vetting you, odds are she ain't shyt.

Are you dumb or lack reading comprehension. Single moms make you feel sorry for them with the ole "my baby daddy aint shyt " routine. I been around this shyt too much. The single moms who actually own up to their mistakes are few and far between

 

[New Username]

You wasnt thinking like this before the coli

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Thread is original as fukk. TLR never has this discussion. Ever.

 

[NoChillJones]

Are you dumb or lack reading comprehension. Single moms make you feel sorry for them with the ole "my baby daddy aint shyt " routine. I been around this shyt too much. The single moms who actually own up to their mistakes are few and far between

What mistakes? Having kids? Cuzz look. You full of shyt. Its obvious because you're not speaking on plain of actual fukking reality. And you consistently make blanket statements which further tell me you don't know wtf you are talking about and just want to talk bandwagon bullshyt because its popular on the board. You talking to a grown ass man, stop peddling this lil boy mentality bullshyt.