Only beta male simps date or marry single mothers. fukk it.

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Well maybe if you start looking elsewhere y'all wouldn't run into this problem as much :whistle::mjpls:
 

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I know a ton...grew up in the hood... u are right they still get wifed up cuz its been normalized. Esp in the hood...but go talk those 1st gen immigrant communities and ask them how they feel about dating single parents...LOL. Id advise neither men or women to wife up single parents...but its been pushed and normalized to the point men/women just say fukk it..esp single motherhood.

Funny thing is not only do some single moms try to pressure young men but older men, on some “I settled so u might as well too”. I can see if an older cat settled with a woman with 1 kid and the baby daddy was dead ...or he had kids of his own. But alotta these old fools such as @NoChillJones were childless when they got hitched with a BM and encourage young, stable men with no kids to wife up single mothers as a first choice. Thats cuz they dont want to look stupid and be the only one doing it.

Alotta young stable men in my age bracket are venturing out and saying no to single moms.....its a rise right now...

Would u recommend ur son to marry a single mother?
Only men with kids should wife up single moms. I wouldn't completely write it off depending on the circumstances but there is no way in hell I'm wifing up a woman with multiple baby daddies.
 
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We definitely don’t need nikkas like you. You liable to lead these young homies to some horrible ass mistakes they could have avoided.

I need all you young nikkas to read these books:

The Rational male
The possibility of sex or beta Male revolution
Mode one
As a man Thinkenth
Dont Forget Rational Male 2, Preventive Medicine. S/O @dark_magic for the Rational Male suggestion. I read both books every year to make sure I stay focused.
 

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Pretend that from the time you understand what sex is your not out there pea cocking one way or the other to get some..........:russell:

As with anything too much of it will kill you. But there is nothing wrong with cherishing the box as long as you CHOOSE right. If you out here dating scust buckets and your scorned because of it......then choose a better woman.....:yeshrug:..... I don't know breh I found a beautiful woman that met my needs. And I know my worth so I get from here what I need, she knows her as well. shyt aint perfect but we good and we are prospering.

Is it that you don't believe that there is that type of love out there.........and I am not trying to sound extra soft or not shyt........there is some real emotional detachments with you nikkas and the word love itself. Its some concerning ass shyt.

I think its the culture of these types of boards in general. A bunch social misfits who prefer to type to people instead of directly interacting......:francis:.....It's fair to assume that alot of posters are loners who don't or can't interact with women either......think that molds alot of your "facts" you keep pushing on here. Its like some alternate reality where its not you not being able to get a woman but you knowing women so much, that you prefer not to even embark......:mjlol::mjlol:.........everything that has been set in stone for centuries when it comes to men and women is debunked on the coli in a matter of minutes:laff::laff:............simp this and c00n that..........so much pseudo bullshyt.....

This nikka spits some good shyt from time to time but he comes off as such a know it all dikkhead with his psychoanalyzing ass that I can see why people push back. :pachaha:
 

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This nikka spits some good shyt from time to time but he comes off as such a know it all dikkhead with his psychoanalyzing ass that I can see why people push back. :pachaha:

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and also..........:umad:
 

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Dont Forget Rational Male 2, Preventive Medicine. S/O @dark_magic for the Rational Male suggestion. I read both books every year to make sure I stay focused.
Yup, it’s somethjng you have to constantly read because you will revert back to your old ways.

I really wish they had something like this when I was 18. But I am blessed stumbled upon it on YouTube book suggestions for men.

I have my 16 year old son reading Mode one right now. When he’s done with that I’m going to buy him rational male and preventive measures.
 

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Yup, it’s somethjng you have to constantly read because you will revert back to your old ways.

I really wish they had something like this when I was 18. But I am blessed stumbled upon it on YouTube book suggestions for men.

I have my 16 year old son reading Mode one right now. When he’s done with that I’m going to buy him rational male and preventive measures.


I try to tell the fellas to read these books but all refuse to read, instead choosing to remain blissfully ignorant. I recently suggested the book to one neighbor whose girl called the po lice on him not long after he moved in the crib with her. He politely declined and then asked if there was an audio version of the book.

That's a good suggestion to have your son read Mode One at the age of 16. My son is 12 and I contemplated having him start with "As A Man Thinketh" when he reaches 16, but I think that Mode One is more comprehensible at that age than As A Man Thinketh. Once he is done with those two, I will gift upon him the Rational Male Vol 1 and 2 before he goes off to University.
 
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The baby daddy, Ex husband and Ex-boyfriend will always try to find an excuse to come in the house because of the child. I know a 21-year old that's with a 40-year-old woman that has her two grown kids living with her and her young boy.
 

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Yup, it’s somethjng you have to constantly read because you will revert back to your old ways.

I really wish they had something like this when I was 18. But I am blessed stumbled upon it on YouTube book suggestions for men.

I have my 16 year old son reading Mode one right now. When he’s done with that I’m going to buy him rational male and preventive measures.

Props to you educated your son not to make dumb emotional non-logical moves concerning women, a lot of dad's don't really think of educated their kids on things like that. I feel sorry for them boys that grew up with single mothers that will encourage them to simp over women that are simply broken goods.
 

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It's ok nikkas. I get it. A pretty ass single mother is the best that you can do in some cases. Facts are nothing greater than this: YOU WILL ALWAYS BE SEVENTH MAN ON THE TOTEM POLE:

1. Her kids
2. Her job
3. Her family
4. Her friends
5. Her baby daddy
6. Herself
7. You

Beta male simps, wise TF up. If you are childless then rock with a bytch with no kids. If you got kids but they live with their mother, then STILL only fukk with a bytch with no kids. Only single fathers with custody of their kids SHOULD ONLY DATE SINGLE MOTHERS. Don't spend your money on no other kid but your own. Nothing against the kids, but they aren't your responsiblity. There is NOTHING HONORABLE in raising another man's fukk trophy. Stop simping you inspiring step dad ass nikkas. I know some of yall are going be mad at my post. fukk IT.

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Your Older Bro Dumb Then My Dude

My Pops Only fukked With Bad Hoes With No Kids And Had No Problem Keepin Em On Rotation

I Had An A1 Role Model

Guess That’s Why I Cant Take That Shyt Serious

So your dad had you....was he still with your mom if he had all these bad hoes? If not, Should good men have avoided your mom since she had you?
 

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Yeah it's a tired old topic. Only thing I'll say is that it creates imbalance. In a lot of places this isn't really a thing, at least not to the same degree. If I can recall correctly there's like one country in Europe where people don't event get married, but as soon as you get a girl pregnant; she's presumed to be your wife. That's how it should be, in my opinion. But I'm a youngin, and that's youngin perspective.
 
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So your dad had you....was he still with your mom if he had all these bad hoes? If not, Should good men have avoided your mom since she had you?

They Broke Up When I Was Real Young. Im Sure He Talked To Women With Kids, But They Weren't The Ones That Were Serious Enough To Be Brought Around Us.

Im Speaking On How Step Sons Perceive Step Dads From Personal Experience

Myself & My Brother Never Respected Any Other Dudes Authority Outside Of Our Pops.

Whole Idea Of A Dude Who Wasn't Our Pops Tryna Discipline Us Was Just Some Shyt That We Were Never Gonna Be Able To Fully Accept.

I Peeped The Same Dynamic With My Friends And Cousins

But fukk That. Look The Point Of Everything Is That Its Dumb For A Single Man To Get With A Female With Kids. Its Not One Logical Argument For It.
 

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They Broke Up When I Was Real Young. Im Sure He Talked To Women With Kids, But They Weren't The Ones That Were Serious Enough To Be Brought Around Us.

Im Speaking On How Step Sons Perceive Step Dads From Personal Experience

Myself & My Brother Never Respected Any Other Dudes Authority Outside Of Our Pops.

Whole Idea Of A Dude Who Wasn't Our Pops Tryna Discipline Us Was Just Some Shyt That We Were Never Gonna Be Able To Fully Accept.

I Peeped The Same Dynamic With My Friends And Cousins

But fukk That. Look The Point Of Everything Is That Its Dumb For A Single Man To Get With A Female With Kids. Its Not One Logical Argument For It.

I was just curious on if you thought this same logic applied to your mom

Didn’t mean it to be disrespectful if it came off like that
 
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