ogc163
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For parents with kids I can see private school costs(around 40k in elite cities) eating up a 250k income. But outside of that it's not reasonable to be living check to check.
I mean, if you're going broke because you just had to buy an M4 then that's your own fault.
I feel you another thing to add is what they driving could be super expensive to fuel and maintain I'm thinking a fresh M4 something along those lines full coverage insurance also what they eating buying probably those stupid expensive whole food stores
150k after tax would be 100k. After rent it's 64k, optimistically. Then utilities, gas, food. Then any loans you have (school, car). Maybe insurance (car, apt, home). At this point, how much do you expect someone to have left to spend for the year or the month?
EDIT: I didn't even take into account benefits like: health insurance, 401k, dental, eye. Which would make that 100k less. To 80k, maybe?
EDIT2: I misread. You're saying 250k after taxes is 150k. So yeah, I agree with you.
My wife and I make 2x that in base and we live paycheck to paycheck, actually worse, we run a deficit - we save most of my bonus and hers goes to pay the nanny. Kids are expensive.
If anyone is wondering
Mortgage + property tax: $7k
you're clearly biting off more than you can chew trying to keep up with the joneses.If anyone is wondering
Monthly take home after tax / 401k / deductions: $20k (excludes bonus)
Mortgage + property tax: $7k (we put 35% down)
Insurance (life x 2, house, car): $600
Housekeeper: $500
Utilities: $1000 (electric, water, gas)
Phones: $250
Gardener: $200
Groceries + Amazon/CVS
+ medication + Healthcare copays + gas + subway/train + subscriptions + kids clothes + random kid furniture / toys
+ swim lessons = $7000
Out of pocket PT / OT for kids: $1000
Random house maintenance: $500-1000
Eating out + travel (average given 2 vacations a year with the family) = $2000 - 3000
The above excludes the nanny, who costs $65k per year (seems to be market where we live)
To be clear, we still save 6 figures per year between 401k, 529s and brokerage/investments, but we’re not living lavishly I’d say, but of course that’s all relative. We own one car that is paid for in cash.
It is 4k square feet, we needed the space so grandparents can stay for extended periods. It’s not a mansion by any means, looks pretty ordinary, just a VHCOL area with good schools, so high prices and property taxeshow many square feet is your mansion?
Exactly. I used to run free budgeting classes. Nothing in life has given me more grey hairs than hearing people's excuses that should know better. If you tripled or quadrupled these people's incomes, with a snap of the finger, they'd find some way to spend it and wind up in the same predicament.you're clearly biting off more than you can chew trying to keep up with the joneses.
My wife and I make 2x that in base and we live paycheck to paycheck, actually worse, we run a deficit - we save most of my bonus and hers goes to pay the nanny. Kids are expensive.
Not one mention of child support...
That shyt can change all your calculations.