That woman better be your woman... the hell I'm going to be the 18th plus dude buying a chick a drink....
That second part, it's a no go. I watched my sister and her friend literally do nothing all night and made it known she wasn't interested in conversation while guys bought back to back drinks for them trying to "open them up for conversation". When they were tired of drinking and dancing they bounced without dudes even getting a good bye or thanks for the drinks. Hell, they even had the guys buy them drinks only for me to end up drinking themA woman isn't going to fukk you because you bought her a drink.
That's not why you buy her the drink.
You buy her the drink to be friendly and start a conversation.
It's an opening.
Ok so don't buy the drink.A lame one, buying a drink won't change her physical attraction which really what that matters. If you are respectful with your approach and she finds you attractive, you will be in.
If the convo is good & we’re in sync mentally, sure.
As an opener? Never
Why is the simple things complicated around here?