Appreciate it brother. Glad to know all my years of reading spidey and having a really geeky understanding of him can make someone's life better
If you ask my friends and fam, I'm basically Peter Parker so I have an innate understanding of how his shyt works.
If you're going the cartoon right, start with spectacular spider-man. 2 seasons, all dope, ended way too soon. For comics, see if you can find an omnibus on the first 50 issues, then read the night gwen stacy died, kraven's last hunt, back in black, maximum carnage for fukkery, the 9/11 issue, no one dies, superior spider-man, and the Parker industries stuff that just ended. Dan Slott is wrapping up his run in the next month or two so now would be a good time to jump on