Aceofspades404
Superstar
no and I don't really get sexual urges like that. Maybe that's why my journey is easier than others but I don't really like talking about since ppl are gonna think I'm weirder than what I already am lol.
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@cloudbox what about you, boo?
wet landscapes
ghost
yeah, especially when I smoke
You do marijuana?
wet landscapes
ghost
QueenSheba
All Star
I commend you for your patience and beliefs. Are you doing this because of religious reasons meaning waiting until you're married? If so you and my brother should be together.
. I don't think it's weird at all. I respect people that wait till marriage. Aceofspades404
Superstar
yes I am and what does your brother look like?I commend you for your patience and beliefs. Are you doing this because of religious reasons meaning waiting until you're married? If so you and my brother should be together.
QueenSheba
All Star
yes I am and what does your brother look like?
light skinned virgin (pops side).
well have two. dark one isn't though (mums side).
Aceofspades404
Superstar
that tells me nothinglight skinned virgin (pops side).
well have two. dark one isn't though (mums side).
weirdo!
Nah you might just have a low libido, do you take prescribed meds or BC?
I wish my libido was low sometimes.
Aceofspades404
Superstar
weirdo!
Nah you might just have a low libido, do you take prescribed meds or BC?
I wish my libido was low sometimes.
No I don't and I think I've always been like that. To go even deeper my sexual desire only turns on to ppl I have feelings for. I could see a good looking guy right now and I'll acknowledge he looks good and that'll be it.It would only go as far as me imagining relationships with them but it would never get sexual. Remember those 2 appreciation threads I made? I didn't lust after any of those guys and I don't think I could if I tried.
I've told ppl who are close to me about this and they looked at me like I had 2 heads.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
No I don't and I think I've always been like that. To go even deeper my sexual desire only turns on to ppl I have feelings for. I could see a good looking guy right now and I'll acknowledge he looks good and that'll be it.It would only go as far as me imagining relationships with them but it would never get sexual. Remember those 2 appreciation threads I made? I didn't lust after any of those guys and I don't think I could if I tried.
I've told ppl who are close to me about this and they looked at me like I had 2 heads.
That's normal. There is a word for it: demisexual
I'm very similar. I get off to people's personalities and good conversation. Kinda sapiosexual.
No I don't and I think I've always been like that. To go even deeper my sexual desire only turns on to ppl I have feelings for. I could see a good looking guy right now and I'll acknowledge he looks good and that'll be it.It would only go as far as me imagining relationships with them but it would never get sexual. Remember those 2 appreciation threads I made? I didn't lust after any of those guys and I don't think I could if I tried.
I've told ppl who are close to me about this and they looked at me like I had 2 heads.
Its not really weird to me, sounds like how it should be for the most part. I mean if i'm honest with myself I'm the same way to a certain extent, granted I'm a man so I could be swayed with a bit of work if I allowed it I'm sure lol...But regardless of how bad a woman is if they just pulled me aside and wanted to have sex. One night stands and hook up...not my thing....I have to be into the person in more than just a physical manner.
So its really not that strange, not having strong sexual urges is different but at least whatever man you end up with will know he has absolutely nothing to worry about.