Kush rolled, glass full????up so early![]()
yeah I cant explain it- sometimes the clothes she wears make her look like she has a muffin top but naked she fine as hellLike innocent said, go shopping with her and suggest things that you think she'd look good in. Of course, she may already know how the fit of the clothes look and just thinks she's the shyt, so this could blow up in your face.
yeah i could tell her i want to pick her outfit from her wardrobeHow about you try and help her pick out a few outfits that compliment her figure![]()
If she's not your girl/you're just getting them draws, why do you care what she looks like IN clothes?yeah I cant explain it- sometimes the clothes she wears make her look like she has a muffin top but naked she fine as hell
i dont know about going shopping with her tho- she is not my girl(although she tries to act like she is) and i dont want to send a confusing message
yeah i could tell her i want to pick her outfit from her wardrobe
she was upgraded from just fukking to the "occasional night out, spend some weekends out doing shyt packageIf she's not your girl/you're just getting them draws, why do you care what she looks like IN clothes?![]()
So.... you've already given her signs that she's not just a fukk buddy. I don't know what to tell you if you don't want to go shopping with her... I'm not about that ill-fitting clothes life, and if I looked crazy in something, my husband would tell me.she was upgraded from just fukking to the "occasional night out, spend some weekends out doing shyt package
she brings down my property value when she is dressed poorly and i of course look exquisite
i mean we go outSo.... you've already given her signs that she's not just a fukk buddy.
Did you tell her that, or are you being vague cause you don't want to stop smashing?i mean we go out
restaurants, festivals, sporting events and shyt
there are 2 other female friends of mine that are at that level
the rest is just sex
she is cool, great career and all but i dont see it being more----
we differ on philosophical, social, and ideals in general
i dont want to be an @sshole, so i wont say shyt about her way of dressing
I asked her why does she continue to chill with me when we have nothing in common(we actually argue alot about issues) and she seems to just not give a real answerDid you tell her that, or are you being vague cause you don't want to stop smashing?
Because she probably thinks it's crude to just say "Cause I want the dikk"I asked her why does she continue to chill with me when we have nothing in common(we actually argue alot about issues) and she seems to just not give a real answer
the funny part is, when we met she told me she was going to restrain from sex until she got married- but i ended up smashing in 3 weeks
she also told me she never had an orgasm from penetration, but magically the 1st time we had sex she had 2 with me
i dont feel bad because she hounds me for sex more than i do her
she been inviting herself over her to fukk without even askingso i had to check her ass
yeah it would be all good but she keeps trying to get me to meet her friends, go to her church with her(2 of the other females i deal with just so happen to attend that same church) and bond with her annoying ass dog( i spent the night at her crib once and her dog was so bad i refused to return)Because she probably thinks it's crude to just say "Cause I want the dikk"
She probably just wants to smash too, which in that case smash until you get bored, I guess... I'd make sure she knew this was for sex only, and she wouldn't be inviting herself over to the crib without prior knowledge.
**Geez, I sound kinda harsh, but it is what it is, and if she wants to continue cutting when she knows you guys don't have anything in common, then so be it**
Sounds like you need to be blunt; you don't have to be an a$$hole, but I'd just say "Meeting friends and going to your church isn't what this relationship is about; you aren't my girl" (in so many words). Maybe I'm just a blunt person, but I generally don't have time to beat around the bush. I don't try to deliberately hurt people's feelings, but I will tell them the truth; that way, they can't get shyt misconstrued.yeah it would be all good but she keeps trying to get me to meet her friends, go to her church with her(2 of the other females i deal with just so happen to attend that same church) and bond with her annoying ass dog( i spent the night at her crib once and her dog was so bad i refused to return)
i decline
and she acts like a brat
yeah it is kinda hard being mean to people after returning from afghanistanSounds like you need to be blunt; you don't have to be an @sshole, but I'd just say "Meeting friends and going to your church isn't what this relationship is about; you aren't my girl" (in so many words). Maybe I'm just a blunt person, but I generally don't have time to beat around the bush. I don't try to deliberately hurt people's feelings, but I will tell them the truth; that way, they can't get shyt misconstrued.