Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

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Like innocent said, go shopping with her and suggest things that you think she'd look good in. Of course, she may already know how the fit of the clothes look and just thinks she's the shyt, so this could blow up in your face.
yeah I cant explain it- sometimes the clothes she wears make her look like she has a muffin top but naked she fine as hell
i dont know about going shopping with her tho- she is not my girl(although she tries to act like she is) and i dont want to send a confusing message
How about you try and help her pick out a few outfits that compliment her figure :smile:
yeah i could tell her i want to pick her outfit from her wardrobe

she wears her shyt too baggy
her jeans look like mom jeans and shyt
 

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yeah I cant explain it- sometimes the clothes she wears make her look like she has a muffin top but naked she fine as hell
i dont know about going shopping with her tho- she is not my girl(although she tries to act like she is) and i dont want to send a confusing message
yeah i could tell her i want to pick her outfit from her wardrobe
If she's not your girl/you're just getting them draws, why do you care what she looks like IN clothes? :pachaha:
 

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If she's not your girl/you're just getting them draws, why do you care what she looks like IN clothes? :pachaha:
she was upgraded from just fukking to the "occasional night out, spend some weekends out doing shyt package


she brings down my property value when she is dressed poorly and i of course look exquisite
 

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she was upgraded from just fukking to the "occasional night out, spend some weekends out doing shyt package


she brings down my property value when she is dressed poorly and i of course look exquisite
So.... you've already given her signs that she's not just a fukk buddy. I don't know what to tell you if you don't want to go shopping with her... I'm not about that ill-fitting clothes life, and if I looked crazy in something, my husband would tell me.
 
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So.... you've already given her signs that she's not just a fukk buddy.
i mean we go out
restaurants, festivals, sporting events and shyt

there are 2 other female friends of mine that are at that level
the rest is just sex


she is cool, great career and all but i dont see it being more----
we differ on philosophical, social, and ideals in general


i dont want to be an a$$hole, so i wont say shyt about her way of dressing
 

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i mean we go out
restaurants, festivals, sporting events and shyt

there are 2 other female friends of mine that are at that level
the rest is just sex


she is cool, great career and all but i dont see it being more----
we differ on philosophical, social, and ideals in general



i dont want to be an @sshole, so i wont say shyt about her way of dressing
Did you tell her that, or are you being vague cause you don't want to stop smashing?
 

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Did you tell her that, or are you being vague cause you don't want to stop smashing?
I asked her why does she continue to chill with me when we have nothing in common(we actually argue alot about issues) and she seems to just not give a real answer

the funny part is, when we met she told me she was going to restrain from sex until she got married- but i ended up smashing in 3 weeks
she also told me she never had an orgasm from penetration, but magically the 1st time we had sex she had 2 with me:upsetfavre:

i dont feel bad because she hounds me for sex more than i do her
she been inviting herself over her to fukk without even asking :upsetfavre: so i had to check her ass
 

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I asked her why does she continue to chill with me when we have nothing in common(we actually argue alot about issues) and she seems to just not give a real answer

the funny part is, when we met she told me she was going to restrain from sex until she got married- but i ended up smashing in 3 weeks
she also told me she never had an orgasm from penetration, but magically the 1st time we had sex she had 2 with me:upsetfavre:

i dont feel bad because she hounds me for sex more than i do her
she been inviting herself over her to fukk without even asking :upsetfavre: so i had to check her ass
Because she probably thinks it's crude to just say "Cause I want the dikk" :russ:
She probably just wants to smash too, which in that case smash until you get bored, I guess... I'd make sure she knew this was for sex only, and she wouldn't be inviting herself over to the crib without prior knowledge.

**Geez, I sound kinda harsh, but it is what it is, and if she wants to continue cutting when she knows you guys don't have anything in common, then so be it**
 

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Because she probably thinks it's crude to just say "Cause I want the dikk" :russ:
She probably just wants to smash too, which in that case smash until you get bored, I guess... I'd make sure she knew this was for sex only, and she wouldn't be inviting herself over to the crib without prior knowledge.

**Geez, I sound kinda harsh, but it is what it is, and if she wants to continue cutting when she knows you guys don't have anything in common, then so be it**
yeah it would be all good but she keeps trying to get me to meet her friends, go to her church with her(2 of the other females i deal with just so happen to attend that same church) and bond with her annoying ass dog( i spent the night at her crib once and her dog was so bad i refused to return)

i decline
and she acts like a brat
 

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yeah it would be all good but she keeps trying to get me to meet her friends, go to her church with her(2 of the other females i deal with just so happen to attend that same church) and bond with her annoying ass dog( i spent the night at her crib once and her dog was so bad i refused to return)

i decline
and she acts like a brat
Sounds like you need to be blunt; you don't have to be an a$$hole, but I'd just say "Meeting friends and going to your church isn't what this relationship is about; you aren't my girl" (in so many words). Maybe I'm just a blunt person, but I generally don't have time to beat around the bush. I don't try to deliberately hurt people's feelings, but I will tell them the truth; that way, they can't get shyt misconstrued.
 

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Sounds like you need to be blunt; you don't have to be an @sshole, but I'd just say "Meeting friends and going to your church isn't what this relationship is about; you aren't my girl" (in so many words). Maybe I'm just a blunt person, but I generally don't have time to beat around the bush. I don't try to deliberately hurt people's feelings, but I will tell them the truth; that way, they can't get shyt misconstrued.
yeah it is kinda hard being mean to people after returning from afghanistan

i am normally pissed so i over compensate and try to be super nice to everyone in real life
 
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