Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

muse

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and my dikk so hard it make the metal detector go off

should i listen to everybody or myself? cuz myself just told myself "you the motherfukkin girl you dont need no help!"

ho shut the fukk up! i got way too much on my mental. i learned from what i been through. im finna do what i didnt do and still waking up like the rents due
 

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Nope.
Ever since my grandmother passed away (2 years ago) my mom is the least desirable person to be around. The way she talks to people is just. :snoop:


I don't think there's a "well" way of handling that kind of loss but you should really bring it up to her. It's unfair to other people to be the landing spot for everything she's feeling. Any support groups in her area? Does she talk to you that way too?
 

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I don't think there's a "well" way of handling that kind of loss but you should really bring it up to her. It's unfair to other people to be the landing spot for everything she's feeling. Any support groups in her area? Does she talk to you that way too?

I've tried to but she loves deflecting. "Sorry, I just had a bad day at work" is her favorite excuse. She treats everyone that way, my dad.. my brother who is mentally challenged and the way she talks to him sometimes really pisses me off because he's "slow" and she has zero patience with him. I've tried bringing it up to her but she takes no personal responsibility for why she treats people the way she does what so ever and gets really defensive and acts like a child who didn't get the toy he wants. And I'm as nice as possible about it too.. I could say "You know, I think you should talk to Jeff a little nicer " and she'll turn into how I should quit smokin and get friends :what:

She has a lot of resentments I think and should definitely seek a therapist, but she never will. She's the most stubborn emotionally timid women I've ever met.
 

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Received a call about a job and based on the job title the avg salary is $81k. Definitely going to hit this lady back tomorrow morning. I need details. Equal distance as my job now just in the opposite direction. Ugh I don't even want to get pumped but this would be huge for me. I'd be out of debt in 6 months.
 

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Ok so the lady is going to call me at 11am. Is it bad that I just want to know the salary range and the exact address so that I can see precisely how far it is from my house? Oh and what are the benefits. :lupe:
 
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