Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[VFib]

How hard is it to say thank you for a gift you've received? The last two people I sent gifts to, neither said thank you. A quick text would have been enough.

I need to start being selfish again.

 

[Milk N Cookies]

When I just listen to the words I can finally let him go.

 

[LeeDoubleLee]

How hard is it to say thank you for a gift you've received? The last two people I sent gifts to, neither said thank you. A quick text would have been enough.

I need to start being selfish again.

i promised myself last year that i was going to stop giving gifts or do a lot less. i can't tell you how many times i gave a gift to someone and hear absolute silence, which i find to be offensive. and i am the type leave the gift receipt with gift so they can exchange it if need be.

 

[Dwolf]

How hard is it to say thank you for a gift you've received? The last two people I sent gifts to, neither said thank you. A quick text would have been enough.

I need to start being selfish again.

Not that hard

 

[Arishok]

Y'all personalities click, the sexual attraction is there, but somethings missing?

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Y'all personalities click, the sexual attraction is there, but somethings missing?

Sound like love

 

[Arishok]

Sound like love

It's weird, I just figured it out. Ever since he told me he was talking to another girl and he doesn't know which one of us he wants to be serious with, I've been feeling "meh" about him

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

It's weird, I just figured it out. Ever since he told me he was talking to another girl and he doesn't know which one of us he wants to be serious with, I've been feeling "meh" about him

Nah that's definitely not weird, that's the lil green monster up in your head starting to seep through. But you got more of a subconscious jealously thing going, him showing interest in others is lowkey turning you off.

Are you trying to make it exclusive or nah?

 

[Arishok]

Nah that's definitely not weird, that's the lil green monster up in your head starting to seep through. But you got more of a subconscious jealously thing going, him showing interest in others is lowkey turning you off.

Are you trying to make it exclusive or nah?

In the near future (like another month or so) yeah

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

In the near future (like another month or so) yeah

Now an important question, when yall was just in the situationship, did he know about you dating other dudes, and how he felt about it?

 

[Arishok]

Now an important question, when yall was just in the situationship, did he know about you dating other dudes, and how he felt about it?

He was extremely jealous. He would confront me even if I was just having a friendly conversation with another guy

 

[Arishok]

I'll also add, he acts as if he doesn't care but me being friendly with other guys rubs him the wrong way @Tenchi Ryu

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

He was extremely jealous. He would confront me even if I was just having a friendly conversation with another guy

I legit had a feeling this was the case.

From what I remember you posting a while back, he was a good dude for the most part. Well as a fellow ok-ish dude, I'd be willing to bet that shyt hurt his ego. When you willing to cuff and she not...that shyt can legit hurt. So now he's in a situation where he knows he's kinda flipped the script. You ready to cuff and he holds a bit more cards on the table. And he gonna milk the shyt.

Also sound like he the jealous type. Probably makes him uneasy because if he knew the situation, he knows you can easily find another dude to get intimate with, so he's on edge. He probably wondering if you even serious about getting serious.

 

[Arishok]

I legit had a feeling this was the case.

From what I remember you posting a while back, he was a good dude for the most part. Well as a fellow ok-ish dude, I'd be willing to bet that shyt hurt his ego. When you willing to cuff and she not...that shyt can legit hurt. So now he's in a situation where he knows he's kinda flipped the script. You ready to cuff and he holds a bit more cards on the table. And he gonna milk the shyt.

Also sound like he the jealous type. Probably makes him uneasy because if he knew the situation, he knows you can easily find another dude get intimate with, so he's on edge. He probably wondering if you even serious about getting serious.

But I recently told him I'm not talking to anyone else after he told me he dropped everyone else for me (a couple of weeks ago)

But now he turns around and tells me he's still talking to another girl that he met around the same time he and I started talking, shyt seems weird.

I always thought it was weird when he would accuse me daily of getting guys numbers and having side pieces so I straight up told him he was projecting and he reassured me that he wasn't talking to anyone else.

A part of me wants to ask why he lie but another part is telling me to just forget it. I mean he could be lying just to gauge my reaction
I mean we are exchanging V day gifts

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

A part of me wants to ask why he lie but another part is telling me to just forget it. I mean he could be lying just to gauge my reaction

Very true. He could just be trying to invoke that hurt he felt, even if minor. Want you to know how he was feeling.

Plus we like letting yall know we still a commodity in the dating game. But he lowkey starting to fukk himself over if this is turning you off of him, its a mistake we make when our feelings get involved heavy.