CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
"But it isn't a waste of their life. A lot of fetishism comes from viewing certain things as exotic and different. That's a very indifferent emotion that can be either hate or love. There are plenty of white couples who in their daily lives are very anti-black and engage in a lot of racist shyt, that will privately invite black men into their bedrooms to cuck the white husband. They're both turned on by this because it's taboo. Because they barely see him as human and he is "violating" his pure white wife. It sounds asinine, trust me, but it's a lot more common than you think. Often when you're black, especially black and queer, you experience some aspect of this at some point."