Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

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welp i ended up doing the ugly cry in my office at work. this last week has been hard as hell on me. i have a bunch of a$$holes for family members and i am just DONE. my friend was trying to walk me through this over the phone but i am beyond angry and disgusted at everyone. my only saving grace was that hardly anyone was at work so i could keep some damn dignity and privacy and i am one of those people that can calm myself down and get it together quickly.
 

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I want to shave my hair off-like do a complete do over. Problem is I'm scared my hair won't grow back lol

I did it and it was the best thing I ever done to my hair. It grew back longer and healthier in no time. I have since damaged it beginning back in April when I first started to flat ironing my hair regularly. Three months of damaged has messed up three whole years of being natural, smh. I'm thinking about cutting it all off, welp. I've been wearing hair extensions, so I haven't been able to nurse my hair like I should. I need a protein treatment so bad.
 
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I did it and it was the best thing I ever done to my hair. It grew back longer and healthier in no time. I have since damaged it beginning back in April when I first started to flat ironing my hair regularly. Three months of damaged has messed up three whole years of being natural, smh. I'm thinking about cutting it all off, welp. I've been wearing hair extensions, so I haven't been able to nurse my hair like I should. I need a protein treatment so bad.
I rarely use heat in my hair so it isn't damaged I'm just bored with it.


but on the flip side I Don't think I can pull off short hair anyway and the styles I want require a relaxer. Then there is the issue of upkeep. If I think I spend a lot of Time and money on my hair now, I think cutting it will only make it worse.

I have to think about it some more.
 
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