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I don't really call chicks these names when talking to them (bytches,hoes, and don't even use bed wench) but fat yeah I use it sorry. If you are esp since that's fixable outside of few extreme cases I don't care what anybody says that's fair ground to me. Also as a woman any of y'all can get dikk esp from losers but the main thing is can you get dudes of quality to stay around? Getting dikk isn't hard esp if you giving it away. I'm not saying and or care if you are just saying its not hard on that end for y'all.

I've been in several quality relationships and dated quality men. I was in a long term relationship for 10 years.

But what I'm saying is now tell me if I'm wrong... Most of the threads on here about fat women are "yucky I slept with a fat girl."
It only bothers me because some men don't believe we can go out and get a quality man to date us only ones that want to smash that's it. Nobody I dated was unattractive, they were all college educated, had good jobs and took me out proudly.
 
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You did the right thing. You had already given your explanation and you weren't going to argue with them about a point you had already made.

I've definitely seen a good thread go south because of ignorance. Some people just thrive of drama. They feed on it and are willing to cause a problem. I bet you money they probably do it in real life as well.
Yeah, especially someone takes a part of your post and nit pick. Like, okay if you disagree cool, their telling their truth/opinion.

But it doesn't necessarily change what I said. I may or may not see that person perspective, you do what you do. Im a do me
 

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I've been in several quality relationships and dated quality men. I was in a long term relationship for 10 years.

But what I'm saying is now tell me if I'm wrong... Most of the threads on here about fat women are "yucky I slept with a fat girl."
It only bothers me because some men don't believe we can go out and get a quality man to date us only ones that want to smash that's it. Nobody I dated was unattractive, they were all college educated, had good jobs and took me out proudly.
I don't doubt the dudes say stuff like,that on and IRL that's the norm. I don't think it should bother you because of the stuff you said before bold. All these things going for you but you care about what some of,these clowns have to say? Don't do it its not worth it and if we saw how dudes really rolled it would probably be even less worth it than it is now and its pretty fukking worthless paying any major attention to this stuff.
 

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I don't doubt the dudes say stuff like,that on and IRL that's the norm. I don't think it should bother you because of the stuff you said before bold. All these things going for you but you care about what some of,these clowns have to say? Don't do it its not worth it and if we saw how dudes really rolled it would probably be even less worth it than it is now and its pretty fukking worthless paying any major attention to this stuff.

I really dont let it bother me too much simply because everyone is entitled to their opinion. It just bothered me a little that people can be so mean about it. But hey what should I expect Im on a male dominated messageboard. Not saying all of you are mean and have hateful things to say. Just a few do.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me...
 

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I really dont let it bother me too much simply because everyone is entitled to their opinion. It just bothered me a little that people can be so mean about it. But hey what should I expect Im on a male dominated messageboard. Not saying all of you are mean and have hateful things to say. Just a few do.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me...


I feel any anger/hurt those kind of comments causes you is justified actually.

It's not a couple posters here and there, it's common enough to be a board sentiment. You shouldn't have to see that, and I'm sorry this place is such a hostile environment for you.

At least you know there are plenty other bullets flying around, almost everyone is catching one.
 

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Well, he's in my top 5 so im biased. It's not a bad thing, its not me calling you weird or awkward. Its me basically saying you are unique. Your like the wild card, thru my eye lids. Idk, I'm not good with describing thru words. I didn't know you were a hermit,

Who does your top 5 consist of breh?
 
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In
[Verse 1]
First the Fat Boys break up, now every day I wake up
Somebody got a problem with Hov'
:francis:
What's up? You nikkas all fed up cause I got a little cheddar
And my record's movin' out the store?
:ohhh:
Young fukks spitting at me, young rappers getting at me
My nikka Big predicted this shyt exactly
:wow:
"Mo' Money, Mo' Problems"- gotta move carefully
Cause fakkits hate when you getting money like athletes
:win:
Young'ns ice-grilling me, ohh - you not feeling me?
Fine; it cost you nothing - pay me no mind
:rudy:
Look, I'm on my grind, cousin, ain't got time for fronting
Sensitive thugs, y'all all need hugs
Damn little mans I'm just trying do me
:smugbiden:
If the record's two mil I'm just trying move three
Get a couple of chicks, get 'em to try to do E
Hopefully they'll ménage before I reach my garage
:lawd:
I don't want much, fukk I drove every car
Some nice cooked food, some nice clean drawers
Bird-ass nikkas I don't mean to ruffle y'all
I know you waiting in the wing but I'm doing my thing
Where's the love?
:mindblown:

Ain't no love, in the heart of the city
I said where's the love?
Ain't no love, in the heart of town
:banderas:

And then the Fugees gonna break up, now everyday I wake up
Somebody got something to say
:dame:
What's all the fukking fussing for? Because I'm grubbing more
And I pack heat like I'm the oven door?
:boss:
nikkas pray and pray on my downfall
But every time I hit the ground I bounce up like roundball
:jawalrus:
Now I don't wanna have to kill soundboys
Don't wanna have to cock back the four pound bar
:violent:
Look scrapper I got nephews to look after
I'm not looking at you dudes, I'm looking past ya
:whoo:
I thought I told you characters I'm not a rapper
Can I live? I told you in '96
That I came to take this shyt and I did, handle my biz
:sas1:
I scramble like Randall with his
Cunningham but the only thing running is numbers fam
Jigga held you down 6 summers; damn, where's the love?
:ld:




Then Richard Pryor gon' and burn up:to:
And Ike and Tina Turner break up:sadbron:
Then I wake up to more bullshyt
You knew me before records, you never disrespected me
Now that I'm successful you'll pull this shyt
:dahell:
nikka I'll step on your porch, step to your boss
Let's end the speculation, I'm talking to all of y'all
:ufdup:
Males shouldn't be jealous that's a female trait :wrist:
What you mad cause you push dimes and he sell weight?:umad:
Y'all don't know my expenses, I gotta buy bigger plates
Hehehe, and more baggies, why you all aggie?
:camby:
nikka respect the game, that should be it:smugdraper:
What you eat don't make me shyt - :scusthov:where's the love?:shaq2:

Where's the love?:aicmon:
 
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