Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

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Are you looking to just have sex or you want a potential long term mate? I'd it's the latter, get her number on the low and hang out with her outside of work. DONT HAVE SEX...just feel her out first.

If you get to the point of having sex make sure your communication is open and discuss how you two will behave at work. If you don't want more then I wouldn't bother. Too risky.

Definitely the bolded, but I don't know if I would want a relationship with her or if I'm just projecting my own feelings of loneliness onto her because she's attractive.

I saw the cutest couple walking down the street today. I want that. :mjcry:
 

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I've had a crush on this chick at work for a minute, and another coworker said she thought I was cute. :mjcry:

I talked to/flirted with her and I think she was dropping mad hints that she's into me. :lupe:

What do I do? If we didn't work together, this would be easy, but I don't want any HR problems. Plus people gossip too much. :mjcry:

Help me, ladies. :sadcam:
I was just going down this path. I told dude i was feeling him, he said he was feeling me too. Its just awkward now.
 

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Definitely the bolded, but I don't know if I would want a relationship with her or if I'm just projecting my own feelings of loneliness onto her because she's attractive.

I saw the cutest couple walking down the street today. I want that. :mjcry:
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There are still good guys at heart in this cold world...
 

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throws a pebble at @Colicat 's window- hey, i need help
okay i am thinking of writing another self-help book :mjlol:
i am considering two different titles

Thot No More: From Jumpoff to Wifey...in less than six months!

Simp No More: Twelve Easy Steps to Establish Healthy Boundaries With Women

:lupe:which do you think has the better sales potential??

thot no more will be very breezy/sassy and non-judgmental in tone
a how-to guide to help recovering hoes refurbish themselves into future wives
step by step instructions, using humor to make the points
backed up by lots of anecdotes and crazy stories
basically selling the idea that it is "never too late"

simp no more will be more sober in tone- like a father to a son
more of a conversation - thinking things through
trying to sell men on the idea that a woman can't LOVE a man until she RESPECTS him
(not sure if that's really true or not, but it sounds nice)

:shaq2: i will +rep anyone who offers some feedback
anyone reading this?? please help me out here
which sounds like a better book
 

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throws a pebble at @Colicat 's window- hey, i need help
okay i am thinking of writing another self-help book :mjlol:
i am considering two different titles

Thot No More: From Jumpoff to Wifey...in less than six months!

Simp No More: Twelve Easy Steps to Establish Healthy Boundaries With Women

:lupe:which do you think has the better sales potential??

thot no more will be very breezy/sassy and non-judgmental in tone
a how-to guide to help recovering hoes refurbish themselves into future wives
step by step instructions, using humor to make the points
backed up by lots of anecdotes and crazy stories
basically selling the idea that it is "never too late"

simp no more will be more sober in tone- like a father to a son
more of a conversation - thinking things through
trying to sell men on the idea that a woman can't LOVE a man until she RESPECTS him
(not sure if that's really true or not, but it sounds nice)

:shaq2: i will +rep anyone who offers some feedback
anyone reading this?? please help me out here
which sounds like a better book
I think 'thot no more' might do better, because hoes want to get wife'd too.

Also I kind of feel like a book geared towards men won't really sell well. But I'm also not a man, so any books geared towards men isn't going to catch my eye.
 

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this girl's baby hardly made 5 months, and she already feeding it table food, from golden corral at that! im scared for her health
im scared for our youth


you know when you facebook stalkin someone you not supposed to (not a friend), and they start talking about some stuff and you just wanna show them out. this guy was talkin all paranoid, 1984 shyt, and im like dude, i could successfully impersonate you to your momma, cuz you put it on your publicly open facebook and you got the nerve to be paranoid?
 

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Definitely the bolded, but I don't know if I would want a relationship with her or if I'm just projecting my own feelings of loneliness onto her because she's attractive.

I saw the cutest couple walking down the street today. I want that. :mjcry:
Come on breh
Snap out of it
Relationships are wack
We off that

Smash and pass
 

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Realising you accidently put together a :ohlawd: outfit and the guy you looking to see this not being around. UNAPPRECIATION!!!!!!! :birdman:

Especially when you have a "who's going to Cave first" contest going on
 
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