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One man has given me every reason in the world to be bitter...but for some reason I still wish nothing but the best for him.

I honestly don't know how to feel about that...part of me feels weak for not hating him :ehh:
 

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Im all my friends go to person when they need help or advice. Well one of my close friends works at the post office has been since February. well she works 7 days a week, seriously no off days, she had 130 hrs on her check, so her check was wonderful, but she wants to know what should she do. My go to answer...nobody knows ur situation better than u, only u can decide. Shes like whats the point of making all this money if she cant enjoy it, and I feel her. I just dont know how to help. Only thing I could suggest was whistle blowing because not having any off days is illegal, but apparently theyve been getting away with it for years cuz theyre the post office. They have a contract with amazon so now they do deliveries on sundays. I dont wanna suggest quitting but it seems like thats what she wants to hear. She doesnt have children, so shes not neglecting anyone, she just wants a life outside the post office.
 

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Im all my friends go to person when they need help or advice. Well one of my close friends works at the post office has been since February. well she works 7 days a week, seriously no off days, she had 130 hrs on her check, so her check was wonderful, but she wants to know what should she do. My go to answer...nobody knows ur situation better than u, only u can decide. Shes like whats the point of making all this money if she cant enjoy it, and I feel her. I just dont know how to help. Only thing I could suggest was whistle blowing because not having any off days is illegal, but apparently theyve been getting away with it for years cuz theyre the post office. They have a contract with amazon so now they do deliveries on sundays. I dont wanna suggest quitting but it seems like thats what she wants to hear. She doesnt have children, so shes not neglecting anyone, she just wants a life outside the post office.

Does she get PTO? Tell save 3-6 months of expenses in the bank at least and some for a nice vacation. Work, use up some PTO and then dip.
 

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One man has given me every reason in the world to be bitter...but for some reason I still wish nothing but the best for him.

I honestly don't know how to feel about that...part of me feels weak for not hating him :ehh:
Awww damn yall broke up? Im sorry. Bitterness doesn't come easy and love just feels better and keeps your energy positive. You dont want to meet a guy with a bitter heart. shyt wont work. Stay positive and you will find someone better.
 

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Awww damn yall broke up? Im sorry. Bitterness doesn't come easy and love just feels better and keeps your energy positive. You dont want to meet a guy with a bitter heart. shyt wont work. Stay positive and you will find someone better.
We've been broken up for AWHILE. We've been doing the whole stay friends thing. I'm currently dating someone else at the moment.
It's just at times he doesn't realize the things he says are insensitive :yeshrug:
 

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We've been broken up for AWHILE. We've been doing the whole stay friends thing. I'm currently dating someone else at the moment.
It's just at times he doesn't realize the things he says are insensitive :yeshrug:
Are you comfortable with that? God bless you for that cause I'm not about that life. "We can be friends". I will slap you AND you friends, get the hell out of here with that. At least you're dating someone else.
 

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Are you comfortable with that? God bless you for that cause I'm not about that life. "We can be friends". I will slap you AND you friends, get the hell out of here with that. At least you're dating someone else.
:russ: It has it's moments...and it's an adjustment.
 

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