is it bad i don't want to go to my line sister's wedding. i mean, we knew she was engaged, but she and her fiancee are kinda cheap, we hadn't heard anything about a wedding so everyone assumed she was just going to go to the courthouse or do something REALLY small with family. then last month she sent a save the date for a wedding at the beginning of august. i have too many weddings already, this was't in my vacation plans, i'm really not trying to have to find time (i don't have much PTO) and money to go to detriot...i feel blindsided by this wedding (and i wouldn't put it past her that she sent "late" notice to cut down the number of people who come). i really want to ask her if she actually wants us there, my other sands got married last year in paris and seemed annoyed that we all showed up.