Are you asking if I give anyone a pass for being prejudiced against Black men?
I hate these fukking useless wars no matter which side they come from and I always call them out. Black men vs. black women, ADOS vs. Diaspora, Light-skinned vs. Dark-skinned, it's all such a horrific waste of time and energy. Not even just that the community should be united (which I fully believe), but even on an individual perspective, why would you talk prejudiced about an entire group like "Black women"? That's as idiotic as any non-black who is racist against Black people as a whole. It's a waste of your life to turn on an entire group of people solely for their race/gender and think they're some sort of monolith or worthy object of your hate.