I think the main point I'm trying to make, which gets lost in all the wild accusations and emotional outbursts, is that BW marriage rates to WM is not reflective of what's being claimed itt.
No one is considering that men do the choosing when it comes to marriage. And it could be BW arent getting married to WM like that because WM don't necessarily want to marry BW.
And I think this is illustrative of my point, BW get married least of all women. I wouldn't say that's because BW are more selective. I'd just say there is a reason for that that has nothing to do with BW. It has to do with how every male in this country is indoctrinated.
That being said, that shyt fukks yalls head up. And BM make it worse some times. But real talk ignoring this pathology among us and pretending it doesn't exist on both sides is just plain dumb. Sorry I'm not going to gas you up by buying the long suffering black woman beyond moral reproach phenotype cacs propogate to feel better about giving yall shyt because : "well, BW can handle it." No. That shyt is fukked up and has taken its toll and it's difficult to deal with, just like my pathologies.
And yea a WM can fukk you and date you and not want nothing to do with you just like a BM can. And no a BW ' S willingness to participate in that will not show up in marriage rates.