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StickStickly

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I'll be honest. She wasn't even supposed to be my main. I allowed her to take advantage of my ex breaking up with me and although I planned on getting back with her, I'm still talking to the other girl instead. She does a lot a weird shyt, like not being able to talk about sensitive things like sex, she plays around entirely too much and when I play around she gets upset, she talks however she wants but gets sensitive when I do the same, I'm not allowed to come over cuz her mom is crazy but she still wanted to me take the trash out after she kicked me out (bish what!!!!), doesn't understand treating me people how you want to be treated, wants someone to take emotional care of her like her father (shyt is unacceptable for a 23 year old), when she acts out she acts like she's incapable of controlling what she does and worst of all I don't claim her yet she got my goddamned name tatted.


Now I'm not perfect, I left this girl like 3 times (twice cuz of my ex, last time cuz she was nagging the fukk outta me at a party) had her hanging around while I still was talking to my ex (she knew that, ex broke up with me literally two days before I started talking to her and I needed to figure things out), and I'm very insensitive to her tears. The thing is I'd be willing to change but I'm not willing to tolerate this shyt. She's not willing to change and she expects me to deal with all this PA bullshyt so she gotta go, especially when school starts again.
Are you 23 too? Way too young to waste your precious time on someone like that but you're already aware. There's no saving someone who doesn't think they need to change. All it will do is make you miserable and right now your only obligation is to yourself. I was in a relationship when I was 19-22 that I wish to god I wasn't. It was a waste of my life. Don't wait that long to let toxic people go.
 

Womb Raider

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Are you 23 too? Way too young to waste your precious time on someone like that but you're already aware. There's no saving someone who doesn't think they need to change. All it will do is make you miserable and right now your only obligation is to yourself. I was in a relationship when I was 19-22 that I wish to god I wasn't. It was a waste of my life. Don't wait that long to let toxic people go.

Yes I'm 23 as well. I was trying to avoid going the "nikkas ain't shyt" route but I guess it's fukk it. I'm not sticking around just because.
 

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It's going to sound harsh but punish pettiness. Tell her she being petty then take away something you do for her. Make sure she feels it. I usually go cold with communication.
 
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