Not feeling a friend's girlfriend...

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So my homie/roommate has been dating this girl. She's writes some sex column and is one of those "internet famous/instagram famous people" or something. I don't know. She's this korean girl from Los angeles kind of acts like some badass cause she smokes weed and she tries to act all "ghetto" and uses the n-word on occasion and she's always talking about race stuff that gets on my nerves. Whenever she hangs out in our apartment she basically pretends I'm invisible, even those she's dating my boy who I've been friends with for 6 years.

Today, basically I was just trying to make some ramen to eat before I went to my job interview in the city and I told her about my frustrations finding a job. And she was like " ofcourse your frustrated, you're a black man in America" (thanks for noticing me! :tongue:) and then I told her that I'm Nigerian and West Indian and then she tries to talk about the differences between Black Americans and African/West Indians in America (which is something I'm very aware of but don't care to focus on early in the morning thank you very much) and then she's talking about all this race stuff that I really didn't feel like talking about. I told her to stop. Then she says "Oh, I'm sorry for your struggle on behalf of society" which just rubbed me the wrong way. I told her straight up "listen, I don't want or need your apology because there's NOTHING wrong with me and I'm not an object of pity and I find it condescending". "She basically tries to cop pleas and take back what she said under the pretense of "I know I got it better than you...but". To which I reiterated what I said.

Now I'm in a bad mood....I'm sick and tired of this girl...
she might be attracted to you
 

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Just go to your bedroom when she is their
If that girl is really as bad as you say she is then I guess the relationship between her and your boy won't last long


Or just spy on her and catch her cheating
 

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ricin in her ramen

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Man .. just invite her to lunch and settle your differences.

Just tell her you want to make the friendship work on behalf of your friend and just talk it out.

life too short for the drama .. or just throw her in the bushes and act like she don't exist :manny:
 
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Y'all nikkas need to stop letting people of other races talk to you about race

Tell them to drop dead before they can infuriate you any more.

That's what irked me about it. I don't like nor appreciate non-black people talking about our issues like they know us or know what it's like. Especially from people who obviously just want to use us like props to make them look "down" or "cool" or to hide their shortsightedness or ignorance.

I have nothing against Asian people at all. Some of my best friends from back in the day are Asian and I'd take a bullet for them, but even they know that the issues we face are completely different and have that respect to know that it's not a topic of discussion.
 

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You a bytch. You cried when she didn't acknowledge you, now you're crying because she gave you the pity you seeked.
 
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Man .. just invite her to lunch and settle your differences.

Just tell her you want to make the friendship work on behalf of your friend and just talk it out.


life too short for the drama

Yeah,
you're right.

Best thing I heard in this thread. I was talking with her over a blunt about Jersey, New York, life stuff...I jumped to some conclusions. She's mad cool. Now I feel real shytty for even making this thread.
 

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Man that aint your chick pay her no nevermind. She wants to be down so bad tell her to get down on this dikk and swallow.
 
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