“Normalize cutting ppl off who checc up on you when you’re in a bad space”- Facebook debate

[KBtheKey]

Not saying she's right, but I think I get what she's saying. Some people only come around when you're in misery or it can be perceived that you're not important to that person if someone only comes around when you're down.

How is this possible? There are plenty of people who've deleted themselves because nobody seen how they were doing during a rough patch. The biggest thing though is understanding that while it may be a nice refreshing mood/confidence boost, you can't expect people living their own lives to feel obligated to babysit you for any reason.

I have a small close circle and we're all doing our thing, but still barely keep up with each other kuz we got different dailies. That's just something that comes with being an adult.

 

[DaPresident]

“Dear facebook, today I had a cool thought. I wanted everyone else to know what I was thinking as well, so I posted it.”

 

[jadillac]

Stupid sht

If I see you smiling and thriving, I'm gonna be happy for you and KIM.

But if you're posting cryptic posts or sad stuff, I am going to check on you.

Stupid ass ppl act like ppl are obligated to pay attention to them all day, evrry day.

Some of us deal with stuff on our own and don't bytch about nonsensical things

 

[Vandelay]

How is this possible? There are plenty of people who've deleted themselves because nobody seen how they were doing during a rough patch. The biggest thing though is understanding that while it may be a nice refreshing mood/confidence boost, you can't expect people living their own lives to feel obligated to babysit you for any reason.

I have a small close circle and we're all doing our thing, but still barely keep up with each other kuz we got different dailies. That's just something that comes with being an adult.

I'm not saying it's the right line of thinking. People are busy, I get it. I'm just saying how it can be perceived case to case.

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

Can we normalize checking mothafukkas for saying dumb shyt? If you got people who check on you whether you’re up or down in life, that’s a mothafukkin blessing.

 

[Estarossa]

Raw…

 

[Wildin]

Damn. I can't find it.

Anyone seen that skit a black dude goes to get his friend at his crib and has like "what's up man?" And his friend says something like "I won the lottery!" And is all happy and the black dude is like "aight, cool I guess I catch you later..."

"....but then I lost the ticket man...." And he's looking sad

"Whattt? That's crazy man, let's kick it"

"..then I found it! Can you believe it!" Happy again

"Yeah man that's cool, I got a go"

"But it was past the cutoff they couldn't give me the money." **Sad again**

"Damn man that's how they get you! You want to get a beer?!?"

"But listen they called the store and proved when I bought the ticket I got $xxx,xxxx!!! I won man! I won!"

**Friend is obviously jealous of the good news** "yeah man, I'ma go"


When his friend was down in spirits he wanted to kick it with him, when his friend was up or doing better than him, he wanted to bounce.

 

[High Art]

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I was about to say, this is probably what she is talking about. She has a point. I get it.

 

[Tetris v2.0]

There are definitely people in your life who get off on you being down and knowing all the details

I would be very careful assuming that anyone reaching out in a time of crisis is that kind of person though. There are probably other signs that these people are not genuine. But they do exist and deserve being cut out lol

 

[BrothaZay]

There are definitely people in your life who get off on you being down and knowing all the details

I would be very careful assuming that anyone reaching out in a time of crisis is that kind of person though. There are probably other signs that these people are not genuine. But they do exist and deserve being cut out lol

Only women think like this

 

[Tetris v2.0]

Only women think like this

Huh?

I was engaging with your thread thoughtfully. My mistake there. These kinds of people exist, often called snakes and other things. Fake friends. You keep them around?

 

[getmoney310cpt]

Nah she right people love to see you fukked up..

I remember when I posted my car that got hit and run when it was parked and totaled, deadass had some random I added and followed from GTA 5 online dm me and talk about how my car was rented and now what I’m going to do etc..keep in mind the mf ASKED me to add him off GTA but then see my posts and never said shyt just quietly hated until I had “a bad day”


It’s real

 

[BrothaZay]

Nah she right people love to see you fukked up..

I remember when I posted my car that got hit and run when it was parked and totaled, deadass had some random I added and followed from GTA 5 online dm me and talk about how my car was rented and now what I’m going to do etc..keep in mind the mf ASKED me to add him off GTA but then see my posts and never said shyt just quietly hated until I had “a bad day”


It’s real

Thats literally not the same thing

That’s a random yt boy you play video games with that you never met

 

[The Wolf Among You]

She’s right. There are people who only tolerate you when you’re fukked up.

 

[BrothaZay]

She’s right. There are people who only tolerate you when you’re fukked up.

You thinc like a woman