Nobody wants you when you're single but when you're taken everyone wants you
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The Entity
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Damn true
jking23258
Pro
Respect man same shyt happens to me i dont understand itYou ever had a shorty that you tried to get with and she flat out rejects you, but as soon as you find a girl you like and you start dating.All of a sudden she just magically breaks up with her boyfriend,and decides to blow up your phone to chill and hang out?
I know I ain't the only one this happens too.
When your single it's like you gotta work for the p*ssy, but as soon as you're taken. It's like bad bytches start appearing left and right outta no where.Wanting to chill with you and take you out.
Life is so weird man....for real.
WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
for me, it's more like when i'm not looking for someone. and that could be the case for me based on numerous reason, not just the fact that i'm with someone already. it could happen because i'm occupying myself with my work and keeping myself busy in a way where i'm not available. or, it might happen when i decide to isolate myself from others (it's the least likely of the other two scenarios) and not talk and communicate. when i do find myself communicating with others, i keep it simple. i recommend just making yourself busy though. having someone else in your life can take up a lot of your time so when you have that freedom to look after yourself, you should take the time to embrace that. it's been a while since i've been in a real serious relationship but i know it's difficult mostly because it's already hard to find balance when dating someone. sometimes you're worried about whether or not the dating will go anywhere, sometimes you're worried about whether or not she's actually interested in you or if you're just dealing with each other. and considering the fact i have a very persistent and committed nature, when i do find myself dating some girl, i try to make sure i'm doing all the right things to ensure that it will move past the dating stage into a relationship. but, now i realize it's better to let things take their course and let them occur naturally. that's how i feel with women now. at the end of the day, i end up dealing with more females than i want to, but it's better instead of putting all your eggs in one basket.
anyways, if you preoccupy yourself, you're always better off. do the things you want to do instead of worrying about "finding" someone. i swear, anytime i've found anyone worthwhile, it always happened when i wasn't trying to find them. the only women i've gotten through some sort of effort were the women i've dealt with for a week or two.
in regards to women redirecting their efforts when you're taken. it's natural because you're not preoccupied with them any more so of course they're going to exert more effort to get you so you refocus on them, it could be direct competition or indirect if they don't know you're with someone. either way, it doesn't matter. the point is you have to always be dealing with something regardless. when the time comes, they'll appear...
anyways, if you preoccupy yourself, you're always better off. do the things you want to do instead of worrying about "finding" someone. i swear, anytime i've found anyone worthwhile, it always happened when i wasn't trying to find them. the only women i've gotten through some sort of effort were the women i've dealt with for a week or two.
in regards to women redirecting their efforts when you're taken. it's natural because you're not preoccupied with them any more so of course they're going to exert more effort to get you so you refocus on them, it could be direct competition or indirect if they don't know you're with someone. either way, it doesn't matter. the point is you have to always be dealing with something regardless. when the time comes, they'll appear...
drugxglory
Street Struck
That happened to me. back when myspace was poppin. Nobody hittin a nikka wit comments...soon as i get girl, Heeeeyyyyy how you been doin??
Funny
When I made this exact same thread I got called an attention whore
Funny
You making light of it now makes you an attention whore too
its the competition, people hate feeling they have been replaced.
Captain Crunch
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malbaker86
Gators
Same thing with jobs. You apply 20 places, get one interview and get the job and everybody magically starts calling you back.
malbaker86
Gators
Funny
When I made this exact same thread I got called an attention whore
Funny
You making light of it now makes you an attention whore too
Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam
All Star
this is the actual concept
No offense intended but females can't think for themselves...they are influenced by other females
Majestic Pape
The-Coli = W SOHH = L
It's just like when you're unemployed you can't even get an interview but once you have a job everybody's ready to hire you. I think mufukkas can sense the lack of desperation.
Oh shyt! Lmao
I actually laughed out loud
But yea, this is actually what goes on. Thats why in highschool and college. Most bytches end up fukking the same nikka. When it comes to social settings, mos young chicks are followers..
JoelB
All Praise To TMH
Oh shyt! Lmao
I actually laughed out loud
But yea, this is actually what goes on. Thats why in highschool and college. Most bytches end up fukking the same nikka. When it comes to social settings, mos young chicks are followers..
Yup...we've all seen this back in school. Let one chick publicly show interest in u, and all of a sudden other girls in her circle start giving you the eye and sparkin up convos out the blue
I wonder if its female competitiveness or just pack mentality?