This is called overstanding my Breh. And literally that's what we all forget and gotta remember... nikkas be QUICK to say "man if that was me..."
But naw Breh... If that was YOU... It would be YOU. When speaking on other ppls decisions and situations you have to literally take into account every 60 seconds/day/week of somebody's life experiences to really TRY to empathize with why they do what they do
Yea it's wild. Like you can see somebody at work who's pissed off. And your first instinct is to be an a$$hole. But for all you know they mighta just found out their mom had cancer. Some people are really going through tough shyt out here.
I've been an a$$hole most of my life. That's my reputation everywhere I go pretty much. At the job. At the gym. Wherever. I set the tone early that I don't want people in my space. Been fired at many places for losing my temper on somebody. But then I really had to examine myself and understand why I'm doing this shyt....cause it was just getting worse. And that's when I realized I was doing this shyt subconsciously. Just in order to protect myself and my own ego. And that just made me feel like a bytch. For letting my past haunt me like that.
Now I still only fukk with a chosen few. But I'm more open to building with people now. Especially those younger than me who can use some advice. If I see a young kid who got low self esteem, I try to drop some knowledge on him. Cause that might be all it takes for him to gain some confidence and turn his life around. If you strong, I feel like you have a responsibility to help those that are weaker than you. And when you look at a dude like nip, you have no excuse. He really came from the gutter. Been through much more pain than me. And he still never let that stop him from being a great man. From being humble and embracing everybody around him. So there's no excuse for me. It's way easier in this life to be an a$$hole. It takes no energy at all. It's not easy to be positive even when life is rough. Keep the peace. But if anybody tries to break that peace, lay the law down