Nigerian Pastor: “Wives, don’t deny your husband sex. Even if you’re tired.”

Richard Glidewell

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It isn't hers to deny you, just like it isn't yours to deny her. IYKYK......it is written. If you really being real about it, it is an excuse and one of the most disrespectful and inconsiderate things you can do. It's a fukked up game of denial. Sex is 20 minutes average. People will spend more than 20 minutes browsing their phones in bed. 20 minutes for a mutually beneficial activity is the best investment you can make in your relationship at the end of the night..........walking around talking about how stressed you are when your stress relief is laying next to you........
 

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He is speaking facts. A lot of women will waste 15-20 minutes on the phone or watching a show. If she is too tired at night there is always the morning.

The reality is most women are not sexually attracted to their husbands especially after a few kids. If you were making her wet by just thinking about you you wouldn’t be having to beg.

But whatever, I realize most married men like having dry dikks, masturbating more than getting it in, looking at women who wouldn’t touch them on the internet, etc.

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People want to clown on this, but it’s a serious relationship thing. I remember a news segment on couples with intimacy problems and the therapists advice was for the wife to commit to sex X times a week or month can’t remember. I don’t remember the details but the women said a lot of time stress put up a wall to initiating sex but once they started and got into it they were fine.

This isn’t about taking p*ssy from your wife to be clear.
 

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He is speaking facts. A lot of women will waste 15-20 minutes on the phone or watching a show. If she is too tired at night there is always the morning.

The reality is most women are not sexually attracted to their husbands especially after a few kids. If you were making her wet by just thinking about you you wouldn’t be having to beg.

But whatever, I realize most married men like having dry dikks, masturbating more than getting it in, looking at women who wouldn’t touch them on the internet, etc.

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So you had to find a way to make it the man's fault after stating most women aren't attracted to their husbands huh?
 

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That pastor is just saying to wives, "Make sure you fulfill your man's needs because it can leave the gate open for another woman to come in and do what you won't."

Not much different than telling a man, "Make sure you're taking your woman out and making her feel special, even if you don't feel like it, before another man does.

How that became misconstrued as him saying its ok to force your wife into sex and be a rapist is beyond me.
 

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Yeah sounds like he’s condoning coerced sex but also his logic doesn’t make sense. Men don’t cheat because they don’t get enough sex from their wives, men who cheat *usually* cheat because they like new p*ssy. You can suck, f*ck, and even do every kinky thing your man wants but if he is the type who gets off on putting a flag on a new conquest, easy sex with the same old stuff will never be enough for him. Women really need to figure out what kind of dude they’re marrying first.
 

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Wtf are yall talking about "rape"/"me too" ? He said women should consent to sex even if they're tired. It's not the BEST advice at face value but he's not off either when it comes to marriages falling apart/infidelity.




fukk this why am I even explaining this?! :why: Yall rep "GMB" all day, LOVE to see when somebody's getting divorced, but when a breh shares what's working for him and his wife with other married couples, he's a rapist.
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