NIGERIAN mother CRASHES OUT on ADOS/FBA daughter in law - "In OUR CULTURE you are supposed to take your Mother in law's PLATE. RESPECT ME!"

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

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[K.O.N.Y]

I can't fix stupid. If you didn't get it from the sources I dropped on your goofy little head then it might be an IQ problem




Funny how y'all so mesmorized

Like I said earlier. You got other things to worry about than Africans doing well in America.

Goofy

You using fukking “we got it from dem maan” Steve Harvey as a reference

 

[OaklandCertified]

Keep that shyt in Nigeria

 

[Phitz]

There are atleast 5 million+ black immigrants in America, and its increasing every year. And every major city in America has an enclave of their respective groups (hello Houston, Dallas, NYC, Minneapolis).

It’s ironic because YOU lack basic critical thinking and research schools lol. This post could have easily been avoided. You’re contributing to the anti-intellectualism on this board.

Key findings about Black immigrants in the U.S.

The number of Black immigrants living in the country reached 4.6 million in 2019, up from roughly 800,000 in 1980.

www.pewresearch.org

you proved my point genius

5 million black people SPREAD ACROSS America from DIFFERENT countries is a drop in the bucket, and they are NOT all from the same country so how do you expect them to find someone from their own culture if there may be 50K from their country SPREAD ACOSS the vast USA and they may not be compbatible with. Those enclaves are like small towns of 2K really.. Even if they want someone CLOSE to where they came frome they still have to date marry long distance. They may be close in culture but are still from different countries SPREAD ACROSS AMERICA.

You lack critical thinking lumping all immigrants in one category as if they are one culture is just as ignorant.

That's why I laugh when I see Americans say they want a "foreign". The numbers are so low even for a "foreign" there's not even enough to go around for themselves.

If I'm from spaish speaking Equatorial Guinea living in Colorado, I might be more compatible with a Dominican(another small country), but most of them are on the east coast and the numbers are still small and country too wide for both of us to meet up.

Statistically this is how we get the intermarriage that is the topic of this thread.

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

I posted before there are not alot of black immigrants or 1st gens in the US anyway, so the options are slim and they many times date long distance to have someone in their culture or close. Often times peopel choose who is in their proximity.

I hate when you all post this without thinking. As I said critical thinking sucks on this site.

That is not a valid excuse.

By choosing someone that can tolerate his culture, it doesn't have to be a "Black immigrant" or "1st gen". Regardless, the onus is on him to find that person, not for ya'll to then blame the woman that he chooses that doesn't entirely conform to his culture. That's his problem and nobody else's. Nobody should be forced in any capacity to change who they are to fit someone else's way of life. And judging by his reaction in the clip, it doesn't seem like he wants that type of woman, anyway, hence he was opposing his mother and her reaction.

Quite clearly everyone talking this nonsense in here about her having to respect his mother's culture can't seem to see that. It's probably the reason why he chose someone outside of his own culture in the first place.

It seems you're the one who posted without thinking.

 

[Phitz]

That is not a valid excuse.

By choosing someone that can tolerate his culture, it doesn't have to be a "Black immigrant" or "1st gen". Regardless, the onus is on him to find that person, not for ya'll to then blame the woman that he chooses that doesn't entirely conform to his culture. That's his problem and nobody else's. Nobody should be forced in any capacity to change who they are to fit someone else's way of life. And judging by his reaction in the clip, it doesn't seem like he wants that type of woman, anyway, hence he was opposing his mother and her reaction.

Quite clearly everyone talking this nonsense in here about her having to respect his mother's culture can't seem to see that. It's probably the reason why he chose someone outside of his own culture in the first place.

It seems you're the one who posted without thinking.

Nope, it's pragmatic, as immigrants who have overlapping cultures are more likely to relate... ie tolerate. You know good and well, there's alot of culture clashing and misunderstanding that goes on between Americans of both colors and those who grew up with immigrant backgrounds

 

[OaklandCertified]

You not even Nigerian, your female is.

I bet you bought your bytch with a goat.

Nikka paid a bride price. Bought some bush meat and cake soap.

 

[OaklandCertified]

Their president.

Your president.

/Discussion

How many Nigerians went back to Nigeria after Trump got elected? I'll wait..

They would rather be here under Donnie than go back to Nigeria. That should tell you something.

 

[Anwulika]

In the wife’s culture, she doesn’t haven’t take the plate. Why should the mother impose her culture on her? She married the husband not his mother. Respect for culture goes both ways.

Furthermore, instead of blowing up over something incredibly insignificant, the mother should have acted like an adult instead of an entitled, petulant child.

I don't know what Nigerian culture the man belongs to but in my (Igbo) culture, a woman marries into a man's culture and his family. Her culture is only really relevant in her wedding/funeral arrangements.

 

[Anwulika]

I would spit in that bytch face if she talk to my daughter like that and expect her to Kneel in front of her. FOH!!!!!!

I never seen them make a white woman kneel in front of them ever!!

fukk this show. fukk that dumb FBA bytch for engaging in this.

Tbf, most of them don't see white women as 'real' wives.

 

[Anwulika]

Exactly. I find it odd how only one side needs to learn culture. It's on both ends

I disagree. I am an Igbo woman who is married to an Igbo man but if I had married a Yoruba man (like the lady in question), I would have had to adopt his culture to be accepted by his family.

It's a patriarchy. A woman marries into a man's family, not the other way around.

The MiL was probably testing her and she 'failed' (in her eyes).

 

[Coco Loco]

I disagree. I am an Igbo woman who is married to an Igbo man but if I had married a Yoruba man (like the lady in question), I would have had to adopt his culture to be accepted by his family.

It's a patriarchy. A woman marries into a man's family, not the other way around.

The MiL was probably testing her and she 'failed' (in her eyes).

You disagree that everyone involved should come with an open mind to learn from each other?

I never said she shouldn’t learn the culture. My issue is if the son never explained the customs and culture to the fiancé how would she know to do that? You can’t fail a test if the information was never presented to you

Instead of acting a fool the mama should have said oh you don’t know the custom? Let me teach you

 

[Regular Developer]

it's entirely possible she could have known that and be entirely within her rights not to acquiesce.

And to add, tis also possible she has been keeping up with others and this was one that he forgot to mention cause he doesn't actually care about it. Mom is being dramatic for no reason.. its just a plate. She could get it next time, if you stop acting like that

 

[Regular Developer]

I don't know what Nigerian culture the man belongs to but in my (Igbo) culture, a woman marries into a man's culture and his family. Her culture is only really relevant in her wedding/funeral arrangements.

If her culture says that both cultures are relevant to the marraige, then how does this statement hold up?

 

[Jazzy B.]

I don't know what Nigerian culture the man belongs to but in my (Igbo) culture, a woman marries into a man's culture and his family. Her culture is only really relevant in her wedding/funeral arrangements.

They’re in LA not Nigeria


Do you think the cac female spouses of Nigerian men are making Jollof in the kitchen?