NIGERIAN mother CRASHES OUT on ADOS/FBA daughter in law - "In OUR CULTURE you are supposed to take your Mother in law's PLATE. RESPECT ME!"

[levitate]

Her culture is only really relevant in her wedding/funeral arrangements.

 

[BuckFilly]

 

[Anwulika]

You disagree that everyone involved should come with an open mind to learn from each other?

I never said she shouldn’t learn the culture. My issue is if the son never explained the customs and culture to the fiancé how would she know to do that? You can’t fail a test if the information was never presented to you

Instead of acting a fool the mama should have said oh you don’t know the custom? Let me teach you

No. I thought you meant that the husband/mother in law should learn from his wife's culture as much as she should learn from theirs.

The mother in law absolutely should have given the wife some leeway and shouldn't have reacted the way she did. It was over the top and probably because the wife was not Yoruba/Nigerian.

 

[Anwulika]

If her culture says that both cultures are relevant to the marraige, then how does this statement hold up?

The husband's culture trumps the wife's one.

 

[tuckgod]

You called a Black American man a BOY in a condensing tone like your great grandmother wasn’t getting whipped and dragged up and down dirt roads back in Colonial Nigeria.

This is how they operate, they toss stones and hide their hands. You are trying to start a diaspora war and failed miserably. Don’t get mad at facts.

And stop being selective with the outrage. Why not call out what I said to your bytch ass in Yoruba I know that’s what has your musty ass so heated

 

[Savvir]

They’re in LA not Nigeria


Do you think the cac female spouses of Nigerian men are making Jollof in the kitchen?

 

[Coco Loco]

If her culture says that both cultures are relevant to the marraige, then how does this statement hold up?

It seems like the attitude is your African American culture is insignificant to mine and I don't care about it. I could be wrong but that's all I'm hearing

No. I thought you meant that the husband/mother in law should learn from his wife's culture as much as she should learn from theirs.

The mother in law absolutely should have given the wife some leeway and shouldn't have reacted the way she did. It was over the top and probably because the wife was not Yoruba/Nigerian.

I was. Perhaps that's an American way of thinking, but that's how I was raised. I was taught to always respect other people's culture and traditions, regardless of race, nationality or ethnicity