You have to be insane to have the child of man who doesn’t want to have one with you. I don’t think ya understand how difficult and life threatening child rearing is and you got these birds that go through all that just to give birth to a child of a man who never wanted that with you. That’s insanity. And they get mad when the child’s father isn’t fully committed how a man should be.
Me and my man had just got together, so my early 20's, and block friends kept asking when I was gon get pregnant. I remember it was like 2-3 girls I grew up with, all asking kinda insistent, tbh.
I hit em with the gucci, on some real life "
I'm not having no babies out of wedlock." They like, "
Why??" (Cuz they knew I had good sense but truly didn't know nobody married.) I'm like, "Because, then, you don't have to chase them for child support. Either yall together or the state handles it." I added, "My parents are still officially married and my daddy got some good ass insurance, yall know I had asthma.
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They like "
Yooooooo! That's smart." They really didn't know.
At least two have gone on to marry. The third is in a ltr with a GREAT guy. ❤