Need help brehs...my girls getting stalked

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long ass story short...

she work at a mall...yesterday this dude went to her store asking for her (no idea how he know her name) and tried talking to her asking her to come out for lunch and saying really weird shyt that sounds obsessed, she tell him no and he keep persisting...then eventually he goes away and stays outside her store for a good 10 minutes staring at her.

he does the same thing today, except comes in twice and she's now getting really annoyed and keeps telling him to leave and no, and dude starts getting teary and saying he's got feelings and her no hurts him etc. then stares at her for a period from far for a lil bit.

what do we do? thinking he does it again, is it best for her to just call security, or for me to do something and go there....i'm not worried about shyt except that if i do something to him, dude might lose it and go nuts. i dunno how to handle these psychos, most of the time they hurt themselves don't they?

how do you handle shyt like this...should she just say no and hope dude eventually fukks off...or should i do something ?
 

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I could understand one being apprehensive about confronting some cat you really know nothing about but if the dude's stalking/harassing your girl then yes you should do something

i get you...but i'm thinking if i do something it might make things worse.

this dude is obviously fukked in the head...i'm just thinking if i do something he might go nuts and and develop a hate for her or something.

do i make sense? weird situation to be in breh.
 

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i get you...but i'm thinking if i do something it might make things worse.

this dude is obviously fukked in the head...i'm just thinking if i do something he might go nuts and and develop a hate for her or something.

do i make sense? weird situation to be in breh.

I see what you saying, I'll say this the longer it goes on probably the worse it's gonna get. So whether its you and your boys rollin up on dude or gettin security involved its better to act sooner. Where did this guy even come from tho, showing up at your girl's store calling her name and she dont know him
 

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I see what you saying, I'll say this the longer it goes on probably the worse it's gonna get. So whether its you and your boys rollin up on dude or gettin security involved its better to act sooner. Where did this guy even come from tho, showing up at your girl's store calling her name and she dont know him

i think you right...the best option is to always have things in your control...can't wait and see what he does. i told her next time he comes to call secuirty immediately, and i'll come there staight away and patrol, and if i see him there then i'll do something.

she says she has no idea who he is...he went to her manager and asked specifically for him. Some Asian dude.
 

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i think you right...the best option is to always have things in your control...can't wait and see what he does. i told her next time he comes to call secuirty immediately, and i'll come there staight away and patrol, and if i see him there then i'll do something.

she says she has no idea who he is...he went to her manager and asked specifically for him. Some Asian dude.

Oh ok then yea I'm sure this guy has a few screws loose. Good luck breh
 
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i could be wrong, but why do i get the feeling your girl is not telling you the whole story?

how is somebody just out of the blue going to be infatuated with her? is she a celebrity, a model or an individual in the public eye?

if not, there may be more to the story...

:yeshrug:


in any case, before she goes in to work, she should let security know and everyone at work know ahead of time so they can be prepared. she already told the dude a couple times to scram, so next time he surfaces he'll know that she is taking it seriously.
 

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Alert security and the police.

Make sure someone is walking her to the car when she gets off.

If you can scoop her up yourself some night.

Come in a little bit before she gets off to make sure no one is lingering around.
 

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Walk up to him and hit him in the jaw, make sure you say "stop fukking with my girl you bytch ass nikka".

Let me know how that turns out. :troll:
 

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tell that weirdo nikka the grim reaper bout to be stalkin his ass if he dont cut that shyt out
 
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