Need confirmation I bushed a chick appropriately...

[Rozay Oro]

See, that's the thing. I don't take those kind of pics.

I actually have good well shot pics. I've even had women approve the pics.

Damn

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Nikka blocking chicks

You’re scared of a woman that you was supposedly fukking

I won’t lie, she did disrespect you with asking you to pay for her to stay an extra day but that’s because you’re a whole bytch. You’re out here taking women on vacation because she gave you some ass.

How the hell you broadcasting your L online like this?

This nikka must be Lil Bow Wow irl.​

 

[JuvenileHell]

Silver Trickster

 

[tater]

I think the whole blocking/ghosting thing is childish. You could have told her why first. How are people supposed to grow and improve themselves? I know you probably don't care if she does, but it just comes across as...sassy on your part to me.

Nothing wrong with telling her how she fukked up and letting her know you won't be entertaining her shenanigans any longer, and to have a good life.

 

[Silver Surfer]

This thread is crazy. OP is taking a trip regardless of the broad, says if she wants to go with him she can, otherwise whatever. The broad tried to dictate to him what's what on a trip he's paying for...what?

Dudes in this thread focused on the wrong thing, saying he's making himself the second option and all other sorts of nonsense. OP's doing his own thing and said the chick can come along if she wants and people trying to shyt on him LOL.

It's not even about so much about tricking...its respect. Love yourselves brehs

Real shyt breh.....

 

[ALonelyDad]

Did you block her immediately after her response or did you say sorry I can only afford to take off Monday and Friday then she proceeded to act an ass? Seems like a little bit is missing near the end portion.

if she did reply in this manner, then she was an ass lol..also the "work for whom" reply was kind of bad too

She replies " Ok...im staying til Tuesday"

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I think the whole blocking/ghosting thing is childish. You could have told her why first. How are people supposed to grow and improve themselves? I know you probably don't care if she does, but it just comes across as...sassy on your part to me.

Nothing wrong with telling her how she fukked up and letting her know you won't be entertaining her shenanigans any longer, and to have a good life.

Had this exact convo this morning. I tend to shut up and act accordingly with people. Like if you do something I don't like, I'll shut up about it, but my actions will reflect my true feelings, when I cut you off. I'm one of those cut you off while chilling with you people. Smile in your face knowing it's the last time we gonna hang out people

Today my homegirl really showed me how silly that is. You gonna keep quiet, secretly building resentment towards a person/thing, but never get it off your chest? You'd rather keep it all inside and lie or hide your intentions, when you could just explain your problem/boundaries and either the person accept it or move on. If you'd actually explain to people what you felt and what you won't be accepting and why... You'd find your circle full of only those people who accepted you, were willing to compromise to meet you halfway, or those who understood you more. But what you'd rather do is hope people just knew everything to do to please you and if they don't, you cut them off without ever giving them the chance to change to keep you.


Basically they running from the rejection... And that's exactly what you see with most of this ghosting/blocking shyt. It's not normally the nutcases who you have to do this with out of safety/concern. It's usually people who have done something wrong in your eyes, but you were too coward to admit it hurt you or made you feel a certain way. So you'd rather run from the conversation completely

 

[kingdizzy01]

Won't make this long....

Got a chic , been kicking it with some months. Her birthday was coming up and I mentioned if her birthday plans didn't work out with her friends, she could come on a trip with me.

Like clockwork she hit me up some weeks later to see if the trip was possible..said "yep...where you trying to go?".....she mentioned Mexico....cool

We texting, making arrangements on dates etc.....

She mention the weekend she was open....

I said..."ok these days work"

She says "work for whom"

I said " works for me, because I can take that Friday and Monday off"

She replies " Ok...im staying til Tuesday"

I block her....

TLDR, never seek confirmation from your peers, stand on your own 2 feet young MAN

and KNOW you did the right thing

 

[tater]

Had this exact convo this morning. I tend to shut up and act accordingly with people. Like if you do something I don't like, I'll shut up about it, but my actions will reflect my true feelings, when I cut you off. I'm one of those cut you off while chilling with you people. Smile in your face knowing it's the last time we gonna hang out people

Today my homegirl really showed me how silly that is. You gonna keep quiet, secretly building resentment towards a person/thing, but never get it off your chest? You'd rather keep it all inside and lie or hide your intentions, when you could just explain your problem/boundaries and either the person accept it or move on. If you'd actually explain to people what you felt and what you won't be accepting and why... You'd find your circle full of only those people who accepted you, were willing to compromise to meet you halfway, or those who understood you more. But what you'd rather do is hope people just knew everything to do to please you and if they don't, you cut them off without ever giving them the chance to change to keep you.


Basically they running from the rejection... And that's exactly what you see with most of this ghosting/blocking shyt. It's not normally the nutcases who you have to do this with out of safety/concern. It's usually people who have done something wrong in your eyes, but you were too coward to admit it hurt you or made you feel a certain way. So you'd rather run from the conversation completely

I agree 100%. I used to ghost/block people too, and some of them weren't bad people, they just did something I didn't like. Instead of giving them the chance to grow (and maybe myself too) I just cut them off. I realized it's immature. You can be honest with people and if they don't like it, then you can respond accordingly. All that being in your head thinking people should read your mind and just know how you expect things isn't how any relationship should be, even a FWB. Also, you allowing them to make you feel resentment or negativity is really giving them more power. Saying your piece and moving forward is the real move.

I think in OP's case the girl was out of line, but one thing I've noticed about a lot of these women who think they're gaming people is they have absolutely no finesse. Crass and tacky...

 

[Silver Surfer]

TLDR, never seek confirmation from your peers, stand on your own 2 feet young MAN

and KNOW you did the right thing

Of course sir...but we share experiences on the coli

 

[Family Lives Matter]

It's her birthday and I been fukking her all summer?

I don't pay for my girl who I've been with for 3 years and have known for 10+

 

[Bossino]

Y'all don't realize how powerful blocking a woman is (btw @Silver Surfer was right). Cheating someone of closure, particularly someone who more often than not decides when things start/end is the most satisfying feeling it's like walking out of a job mid shift, you know regardless in that moment, they're scrambling/baffled down bad, and they didn't get to get they shyt off. Blocking is goated, when justified

 

[Rozay Oro]

See, that's the thing. I don't take those kind of pics.

I actually have good well shot pics. I've even had women approve the pics.

You got friends?

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

You got friends?

Of course. I'm a popular and well liked dude.

My issues with women is solely because of my face. I've confirmed this with many women who rejected me.

I know it's hard to accept something that isn't in your control like genetics but it is what it is.

I've learned to cope with it and find ways to still get women (although rarely)

 

[JLova]

I feel like there could have been a discussion there to see where her heads at and then tell her the deal. This isn’t a broad you just met.