NBA Player RJ Hampton Getting Aired Out by BM

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He just verbally abused her. I'm sure he is paying child support. How are you flying there but can't pay for a room. You wanted the bag didn't you?

Also she is a BM and thats it he has no obligations to house her and if it's just verbal it is what it is. He didn't handle her physically so I don't understand why they are blowing this up. As if most people are nice to their BM/BF. I have read enough stories of coli brehs who can't stand their BM
 

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The mother of your child travels hours for you to see your child and you're not decent enough to ensure she has a place to stay while visiting? Who raised y'all?

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It don’t work like that my man. That’s what she signed up for. My best friend drives two hours some weekends to drop off her son to see his father they meet halfway. He isn’t obligated to do any of that.
 

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What pains me is this type of women would never give the average good and kind hearted man a chance, a man who isnt rich or an athlete but would devote their entire selves to them and be loyal, they would never give those guys a shot, they want the bad guys and the thugs who dont treat them right and care about their emotions. It is what it is at this point

What the fukk are you on about?
 

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It don’t work like that my man. That’s what she signed up for. My best friend drives two hours some weekends to drop off her son to see his father they meet halfway. He isn’t obligated to do any of that.
Exactly

Im a product of a broken home. Thats the shyt WE had to do.

And it wasnt even my pops. My pops and mom couldn’t stand each other at some point, couldn’t even talk on the phone. It was my grandparents dropping us off 2 hours a way.

Dynamics of a broken home… :yeshrug:

Now, they can literally be in the same house under the same roof with no issues (my house to be exact) because we are grown, grandkids involved for them, bigger fish to fry.

So this is shyt they will have to figure out AS A FAMILY. Her trying to put him on blast for leaving her “stranded”.. not for the supposed domestic dispute but because he wont pay for her hotel….:unimpressed:

Her real issue is that she never really wanted a family with dude, she thought she saw wealth and security to where she could be a housewife bum and its not the case now. Even if he could, he obviously wants nothing to do with her.

She probably gonna shack up with a military dude if his career doesn’t pan out
 

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Exactly

Im a product of a broken home. Thats the shyt WE had to do.

And it wasnt even my pops. My pops and mom couldn’t stand each other at some point, couldn’t even talk on the phone. It was my grandparents dropping us off 2 hours a way.

Dynamics of a broken home… :yeshrug:

Now, they can literally be in the same house under the same roof with no issues (my house to be exact) because we are grown, grandkids involved for them, bigger fish to fry.

So this is shyt they will have to figure out AS A FAMILY. Her trying to put him on blast for leaving her “stranded”.. not for the supposed domestic dispute but because he wont pay for her hotel….:unimpressed:

Her real issue is that she never really wanted a family with dude, she thought she saw wealth and security to where she could be a housewife bum and its not the case now. Even if he could, he obviously wants nothing to do with her.

She probably gonna shack up with a military dude if his career doesn’t pan out
No thanks breh......I would never let any of my Junior sailors fall into that trap unknowingly..........she aint getting no dependent IDs from me and mines..........
 

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No thanks breh......I would never let any of my Junior sailors fall into that trap unknowingly..........she aint getting no dependent IDs from me and mines..........
She could easily latch on to a E3-E4 type breh with a Challenger looking to get out the barracks :mjlol:

We need good Sailors like you though to help them to avoid those kind of mistakes.. Unless they already got a dependopotamus :mjlol:
 

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If im not with her, and not cool with her, then yeah find you another place to stay :mjlol:

IF it was my BM and we good, then she would be good together or not. Thats ME though how my mind and upbringing works.

I don’t have kids, and do not lay down with someone I wasn't interested in being with longterm or having kids with. If she tried to fukk me in custody cases, then yeah its fukk her outside of what she does for my kid.

Also, every situation is different.. I’m also not an aspiring athlete spending my life on the road. You would think she would be aware of the lifestyle of a professional athlete. He JUST said she was out in Miami partying her ass off. No, I’m not putting you up for 45 days :mjlol:. At best, I bet he did get her a return flight home.

These are the dynamics that pop up in a broken home, and it’s up to them to amicably figure it out. Running to social media to complain and pretend to be a victim is not figuring it out. Shouldn’t she be getting child support? That can’t cover a hotel?

The way you treat the mother of your child impacts your relationship with the child.
 

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The way you treat the mother of your child impacts your relationship with the child.
I do agree… that is vice versa too

Not having any contact and cutting her tf off with anything outside of my kid isn’t doing THAT much that isn’t already happening.

Bottom line, if I want to be with my kid I should have that right especially if I'm paying HER for support of my kid. Outside of that, idgaf what she does and I am not obligated to pay for her to stay around me :mjlol:

You nikkas stay missing the point. She wanted him to pay for her to stay in town near the kid.. am I reading it wrong?

If I was cool with her, then yes, I would probably do it. I would probably even let her stay with me wherever I am at because I’m grown enough to know its over but grown enough to know if she’s a solid person who would respect that fatherly time. Ive seen people in my own fam do it.

Obviously, dude is not cool with her. So pay your own way if thats what you are choosing to do. TF is she gonna do, chaperone the visits? You chaperoning me with MY kid?
 
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I do agree… that is vice versa too

Not having any contact and cutting her tf off with anything outside of my kid isn’t doing THAT much that isn’t already happening.

Bottom line, if I want to be with my kid I should have that right especially if I'm paying HER for support of my kid. Outside of that, idgaf what she does and I am not obligated to pay for her to stay around me :mjlol:

You nikkas stay missing the point. She wanted him to pay for her to stay in town near the kid.. am I reading it wrong?

If I was cool with her, then yes, I would probably do it. I would probably even let her stay with me wherever I am at because I’m grown enough to know its over but grown enough to know if she’s a solid person who would respect that fatherly time. Ive seen people in my own fam do it.

Obviously, dude is not cool with her. So pay your own way if thats what you are choosing to do. TF is she gonna do, chaperone the visits? You chaperoning me with MY kid?

You being "cool" or not with the mother shouldn't dictate whether you make sure she has a safe place to stay when she brings your child to visit you. It's just the considerate thing to do. These same dudes be flying out IG models and tricking on them. It shouldn't be an issue getting a decent hotel for a couple of days.

I guess I just see things differently. I'm never having kids outside of marriage but if I do get married and divorced and have kids, I'm still going to treat their mother with a high level of respect to set a good example for my kids.
 

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You being "cool" or not with the mother shouldn't dictate whether you make sure she has a safe place to stay when she brings your child to visit you. It's just the considerate thing to do. These same dudes be flying out IG models and tricking on them. It shouldn't be an issue getting a decent hotel for a couple of days.
Then she needs to figure that shyt out before me :mjlol:

But I don’t need to defend this stance, you nikkas must be from candyland with all these sweet as dreams.

Being “cool” meant we split amicably, without you trying to fukk over my time spent with my kid, my financial position, or in ANYTHING that has to do with my child.

If we are not “cool”, then I do not have to provide you with shyt other than what legally I have to.

Was she not safe if she took her ass home? What about her moms house, where she left the kid to go party in Miami for a week or however long.. she couldn’t go there? Was I responsible for her safety then?

Disingenuous af :mjlol:
 
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