AZBeauty
Stop lyin' nicca.
As the wife, I would encourage him getting his son and trying to straighten his life out. I would make sure I did my part (whatever I could possibly) in trying to make sure the son is in a loving, nurturing environment. However, the minute his behavior gets out of control and is disruptive to my household where it is affecting my children then I would suggest he goes back to the Mom but that my husband continue his efforts. So, if that means long drives and more frequent visits then that's what he needs to do.