My uncle broke down on me last night

[thatdude954]

Sometimes I wonder if I want to get married. My father is married to a woman (not my mom) he hasn't loved for about 10 years. All my uncles and aunts tell him to leave her but, she'll gut him for every penny he has and he knows it. She hasn't worked in 20 years. So she'll get alimony. They had a house but, when they almost got a divorce, she was about to get it, so now they rent because that's one less thing he'll have to give her. Nikka is just miserable. He 63 working around the clock to support this worthless bytch. He won't retire until 70 at the latest I feel ashamed to call him dad sometimes. He's weak willed, a simp, etc. I'd rather be penniless and build my finances back up than to waste my life married to a woman I can't stand. Every time I see him the regret is all over his face Shyt have me looking at my girl some kinda way....like I love you right now in your beautiful 22 year old form but, what kinda harpie will you turn into 25 years from now

He's scared bruh. He probably feels like "whos gonna want me? I'm 63, no apartment, no car."

To the OP, GL to the fam. She gonna regeret it. Tell him to hold his head.

 

[Reptile]

Damn.

 

[The Guru]

God can't help him now..Spend some time taking his mind off of things. Have fun with the family.

 

[SuikodenII]

oh my gawd

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

 

[Blackrogue]

People lobby for change in all sorts of matters. Men are a huge percentage of the population yet they as a group are not lobbying to change these obviously fukked up divorce laws.

How is it right that a person who sweats and does everything right like your uncle did loses a big chunk of what he worked for because he loved her and wanted her to he his companion?

Why are spouses who are adults entitled to alimony? We are no longer together. Go make your own money.

These laws are the reason fewer men are getting married. These laws are actually destroying family structure as part of a larger agenda. Women rushing trying to get married and trapping men with babies in some cases because it's a money grab. Guys are not protected in any way.

I still want to get married and have a family. That has value to me. But it's easy to get increasingly jaded when I see older folk no longer together, very few marriages are for life. It's no longer the fairy tale it used to be..at least for the men.

I noticed few women posted in this thread. Interests in their take on things.

 

[eastside313]

Over the road truckers should be single men. You can't keep a woman happy when you gone for 2-3 weeks out a month.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

fukk ima say.

Tell him this

 

[DEAD7]

OP aint shyt
No hug? No pat on the back? you just dipped?

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

This man was a truck driver that built a trucking business gradually. Didn't come from shyt and made it on his own making 300-400k.


His wife left him for her "true" love. A nikka that went to jail she apparently has been fukking the past 5 years


The both like 55


I've never seen this nikka cry in my life. He's always giving back to the community, always helped me out with cash here and there without me asking just gave it bc I was doing good in my life.


Nikka broke down life uncontrollable deathly cries.

Told God he did everything right so why him?

I'm awkward in situations like that so I just walked out the room. Nothing I could say to make it better




Everything this man has built in his life is gone bc of this woman. She getting half bc he gave her everything, put her name on the business and home. She was the nikkas wife



Get married if u want to, I don't think I can breh the nikkas just fukking these hoes for life seem to be the only ones winning. I used to talk down on em but I think I finally see

he was too nice
gave her what she wanted

 

[rich]

I thought you #GMB nikkas was playing

Im no a simp no mo, I am delivert #HOH

The Man Is Belowing A Howling Cry Of Sadness And Despair From The Pit Of His Knotted Stomach And He Hits Him With The

but I ain't gone lie, when a man you looked up to breaks down to nervous ruble of tears, can't help but feel a mix of and

 

[BrothaZay]

Rae curruth

 

[GzUp]

tell ur uncle to hold his head up, at the end of the day he is gonna end up winning.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

This man was a truck driver that built a trucking business gradually. Didn't come from shyt and made it on his own making 300-400k.


His wife left him for her "true" love. A nikka that went to jail she apparently has been fukking the past 5 years


The both like 55


I've never seen this nikka cry in my life. He's always giving back to the community, always helped me out with cash here and there without me asking just gave it bc I was doing good in my life.


Nikka broke down life uncontrollable deathly cries.

Told God he did everything right so why him?

I'm awkward in situations like that so I just walked out the room. Nothing I could say to make it better




Everything this man has built in his life is gone bc of this woman. She getting half bc he gave her everything, put her name on the business and home. She was the nikkas wife



Get married if u want to, I don't think I can breh the nikkas just fukking these hoes for life seem to be the only ones winning. I used to talk down on em but I think I finally see

I read this post for the first time today ..and just instantly thought of my own uncle .....he's a hardworking mechanic a damn good one...everybody in my family goes to him....married to this "church woman" for 25 years...put two daughters thru college...bought his non-cooking attitude having wife a brand new lexus...went into extra debt to buy a "bigger house" for her...and now SHE KICKED HIS A$$ out the house on some trumped up "cheating allegations"...

dude is a good dude......she know gottdamn well he's a good man......she just wanted to use him as a "lick" cause she know she ain't got no retirement or any savings to live off of.....she was dependent on him..so instead of having to depend on him..she decided to "legaly rob him" by having him buy all this shyt take the home and basically run off into the sunset and probally move somebody else in....

he was such a happy healthy man....I seen him at my grandmother's house which he moved into ..looking horrible....

I just wanted to