"My Husband Let Me Take a Year Off From Our Marriage — Here's What Happened"

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Totally not what that means. Wanting Stability in a partner isn't unnatural. Only when sex is the most important thing you value from a person. I'm kinda happy I've had a shyt sex life. I couldn't imagine that being the main purpose of a dude to the point I'm afraid to partner up with them for the long term.
Darling there are women i love that the sex is pretty much horrible. One of them is someone i was in love with a long time. It's not all about the sex
 
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Did ya'll read? They both wanted it. They both moved on and the both are with others.

I love how you all like to pretend like throwing out an 18 year marriage is like throwing out the newspaper. They did what they both wanted. The both found out that they wanted to be out the marriage and now the both haver new relationships. They ain't hurting no one. Let them people live.

She wrote the article.... (if its true) Is there a version of this written by the husband?
 

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sad truth is MOST MARRIED WOMEN feel this way.....they find MARRIAGE stifling and repetitive....

the only reason they stay married is for the SECURITY and they don't want the STIGMA of being a insensetive slut bucket to thier husband and children... :manny:

i just had to hear the "testimony" of a good friend of mine whose woman PACKED UP EVERYTHING and moved her and the kids out to california to be closer to her "Jumpofff/lover" after 12 years of marriage...

homie ain't do nothing wrong...great dude no cheating ..no beating on her...even paid all her school debts and bought her a BMW truck...

these HOES get complacent aka BORED.......and feel they have only one life to live and all the institution of marriage is enslaving them

i know it personally myself...i just got hit up by the wife of a minister who wants to reignite our "affair" because her "husband" is too conservative in the bed...... smh

even though this man has done it all for her...bought her a home ..financed her business....

mane.................SOCIETY LIED TO US THINKING WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT THAN MEN...that's a LIE :ufdup:

morally they GIVE NO FUKKS....and they BEEN TRYING TO GET IT HOW THEY LIVE.... so betta get yo mind right

You could give a woman Suns and Galaxies, entire universes and that still don't be enough.

Toxic ass times we live in, dare I say demonic.
 

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It could very well have been her husbands fault.

The guy sounds like a entrepreneur and they sound like they are well to do.

He could've finessed his wife for years. Ive heard of a lot of men who will say they want children....but

Year one: "Babe we just got married lets enjoy our time alone!":blessed:

Year three:"babe the business is just barely getting by, i don't think we can have kids....":patrice:

Year seven: "babe the business and your career are doing so well right now! we're just too busy!":mjcry:

Year 10:"we just bought the condo in malibu, we can't maintain our lifestyle if we add kids in the mix!" :mindblown:

Year 12:"I think we're too old for kids now and I aint adopting no nikkas" :mjpls:

And so on.

But if she knew from jump he didn't want kids then the blame falls squarely on her shoulders.
 

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It could very well have been her husbands fault.

The guy sounds like a entrepreneur and they sound like they are well to do.

He could've finessed his wife for years. Ive heard of a lot of men who will say they want children....but

Year one: "Babe we just got married lets enjoy our time alone!":blessed:

Year three:"babe the business is just barely getting by, i don't think we can have kids....":patrice:

Year seven: "babe the business and your career are doing so well right now! we're just too busy!":mjcry:

Year 10:"we just bought the condo in malibu, we can't maintain our lifestyle if we add kids in the mix!" :mindblown:

Year 12:"I think we're too old for kids now and I aint adopting no nikkas" :mjpls:

And so on.

But if she knew from jump he didn't want kids then the blame falls squarely on her shoulders.
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