My homeboy's wife is telling me she wants to admit to him that I smashed

Menna

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Anything could happen, but what is the likelihood of it happening if you did nothing wrong?

There is no logical reason for your social circle turning on you, you losing a GF and running fades with a homie if you are innocent. If it happens, then that would be a cue that those ppl never fukked with you off rip and decided to do what they did then they felt the need to do it. *shrugs*

Idk if the story is even true? Nevertheless, there is a reason why codes exist. Just honor it and minimize any potential issues moving forward...*shrugs*
Yes, doing what he did increases chances but a friend switching up/becoming confrontational and a girl leaving happens on any given Sunday.

If he valued both these ppl and wanted 100% chance of shyt not going left he would have done different … he doesn’t care and we are assuming his life is deeply ingrained with these ppl …just walk away
 

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Yes, doing what he did increases chances but a friend switching up/becoming confrontational and a girl leaving happens on any given Sunday.

If he valued both these ppl and wanted 100% chance of shyt not going left he would have done different … he doesn’t care and we are assuming his life is deeply ingrained with these ppl …just walk away

Like I told OP...

He assumed the risk when he smashed his so called homie's wife. Obviously, he didn't respect his so called homie which is why he did what he did.

My thing is...

Why worry about it now?

If the wife tell, then she tell!!

Can't expect someone to keep secrets if they have nothing to lose???

Some friendships have expiration dates. Since OP wasn't too fond of the husband, then he should have expected the 🐱 to be let out of the 👜 @ some point. *shrugs*

For you, I think we agree with each other, but for me, I believe that keeping one's business to himself while honoring the code will minimize any potential issues.
 

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Like I told OP...

He assumed the risk when he smashed his so called homie's wife. Obviously, he didn't respect his so called homie which is why he did what he did.

My thing is...

Why worry about it now?

If the wife tell, then she tell!!

Can't expect someone to keep secrets if they have nothing to lose???

Some friendships have expiration dates. Since OP wasn't too fond of the husband, then he should have expected the 🐱 to be let out of the 👜 @ some point. *shrugs*

For you, I think we agree with each other, but for me, I believe that keeping one's business to himself while honoring the code will minimize any potential issues.
Exactly why worry about it now. What he look like trying to beg someone else’s wife to do or not do something…

I’ve sat ppl down look them in their eyes and asked them if I did anything wrong to cause all of a sudden negative/confrontational/switch up behavior and ppl have said no lol…

So to me it don’t matter if you did wrong or you did right switch ups happen … the only thing in doing wrong is you feel guilt and might have to watch your back…

Other than that he might not be speaking to this couple 18 months from now cheating or no cheating is my only point

Cheating AND wanting things to work out is crazy lol
 

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I wish you much success in your future dealing with a potential homicidal husband endeavors.
 

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Dudes in here actually wishing me bodily harm. Buncha lame asses. Y'all telling me you wouldn't jump at the chance to smash a bad bytch if she wanted just because she's with some dude you know from school? Come on lol.
 

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Dudes in here actually wishing me bodily harm. Buncha lame asses. Y'all telling me you wouldn't jump at the chance to smash a bad bytch if she wanted just because she's with some dude you know from school? Come on lol.

Yes because unlike your bytch ass I have something called loyalty, respect and common denceny. My parents raised me right. If karma was real you would get your ass kicked into a bloody pile on the ground.

If the situation was reversed you would expect your boy not touch your woman because he is your boy. :pacspit:
 

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Exactly why worry about it now. What he look like trying to beg someone else’s wife to do or not do something…

I’ve sat ppl down look them in their eyes and asked them if I did anything wrong to cause all of a sudden negative/confrontational/switch up behavior and ppl have said no lol…

So to me it don’t matter if you did wrong or you did right switch ups happen … the only thing in doing wrong is you feel guilt and might have to watch your back…

Other than that he might not be speaking to this couple 18 months from now cheating or no cheating is my only point

Cheating AND wanting things to work out is crazy lol

OK..

Now I understand why you responded to me with your POV..

You have had so called friends flip the script & act funny style towards you w/o provocation.

Yeah, that happens unfortunately...

That's why we have to be aware of the temperature when we are around ppl, especially those we function with often..

I'd imagine that most ppls social circle will naturally get smaller as they get older. Ppl will go their separate ways in many cases, so..
 

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Dudes in here actually wishing me bodily harm. Buncha lame asses. Y'all telling me you wouldn't jump at the chance to smash a bad bytch if she wanted just because she's with some dude you know from school? Come on lol.

I don't wish harm to you. But, for me, I would not smash a married woman no matter who she is, how fine she is nor if I know her husband or not.

Why?

Because it's never worth it @ the end of the day...

There are a lot of good looking or decent looking women out there who is available and without any ties to another man.

Also, I understand that if I was to take the risk to sleep with a married woman, then she has to be someone who knows how to keep her mouth shut.

She has to have something to lose that way I won't have to worry about her feeling any sort of remorse from an action she chose to participate in..

My thing with you is to man up and accept whatever consequences that comes with your actions. After that, learn your lesson and make changes on how you move out here in the world...
 
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