My god my text game sucks

What should I do?

  • Call her again

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  • Double text that bytch

    Votes: 5 13.2%
  • Go home to your girl

    Votes: 33 86.8%

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re'up

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Movie is a bad date idea, period, unless it's someone you are cool with, and you both really want to see the movie, or have some common interest in the movie. You can't talk, the most important aspect of a date, esp. the first one.

As far as texting, I didn't read what you sent, I'll just say be direct, and personal, meaning don't sent generic texts, that lack feeling and personalization. Have a plan, somewhere you want to go with her, something you talked about together, even if it's as simple as getting dinner. It's not a manipulation or scam, just be genuine. Be upfront and be clear you are asking her out, don't try to build anything much over text, with few exceptions. Just figure when you can meet up, and leave it til then. Don't send dumb texts and memes, until you have asked her out, if that's what you want.

Obviously, you have to consider intellect, different types of people, age, but in general....
 

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A movie is a horrible first date. You should have invited her out for drinks

Nah movies is a solid first date if you aren't confident in your mouth piece. There is very little talking that needs to happen before the movie and the movie itself is an instant convo starter after it's over. But you have to gauge the chick out. She has to be feeling you because if she's on the fence then that shyt will backfire and she will just be bored with you.

Drinks is legit if you can hold a convo. If you can not come off as a fukking clown then you can pretty much call it a guaranteed win.

Another good one any type of spot that has chill live music. You pretty much don't have to do anything. You show up, chill, drink and then go back to the crib without really putting in any work.
 

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if the person on the other end is interested it doesn't really matter how good or bad your text game is.
leave it, if she doesn't hit you before wednesday/thursday hit her up one last time and if that fails its onto the next one.

THIS

Scrap the movies....your place if its nice, bar, brewery, barcade, pizza, ice cream
I work from home in a downton Denver...9 out of 10 girls are cool coming to the crib(especially after showing it in background via facetime)....the 1 out of 10 not trying to come through the crib I meet them within a bar/brewery within 2 blocks from my apartment

This less said through text the better
You're better off having a quick call or facetime...within the call or FT setup a time to meet(how does your schedule look for the remainder of the week)
 

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@K33M u have her snapchat or ig? If so use that as a chance to get at her again without looking thirsty. Especially Snapchat, cause people looking for other people to view they snaps in general, so u view her snap and comment on something in it, after y'all spark a convo u go wit your move again

But u gotta play it cool once y'all talk, chicks kinda want you to be assertive but u have to give him a chance to like u before she would really want you taking her somewhere. Y'all just text on the low constantly for a couple days and parlay that somehow into moving to the next step
 

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Yo my text game is weak I actually need some help fam. Got out of a long relationship and I keep taking L's. I get numbers easy but I can't get her to reply or engage fully in convo
 

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I don't think you fukked up or anything, I think you just a backup in her "attention bank". She'll hit you up when she's bored or needs a quick attention boost. You could fukk if the circumstances are perfect but it's not really worth it. She don't value you right now.
 

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He wasn't smooth with it tho
Wasn't smooth at all...

My text game fire but I genuinely don't enjoy it... You gotta banter with her then drop the shyt, go cold then come back. It's all an art like a fine ass picture.
 

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You should do happy hour dates, invite her for some cocktails. Females love cocktails. With alcohol involved you never know how the date will end:scheme:
 

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You didnt do anything wrong, shes just not into lyou ike that.

When I start texting a girl I just meet, I go straight for the kill also. So you don't get stuck in the friend zone, I'd rather have a idea if she interested or not.
 
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