My friend’s man said he loves me.....

[OfTheCross]

I don't understand why you would even consider bringing it up to your friend. Like wtf would be the benefit of it? Whether they had a "solid" relationship or not why would you not let it go?

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Ok, wow. Honestly, I think her friend is petty, insecure, maybe jealous. Unfortunately, women are conditioned to compete. When some women see their friend getting more attention they act out. Or maybe it’s just an internal struggle. She may have low self esteem and wants to feel desired, so she seduced you, that made her feel powerful and wanted. Usually when a woman has low self esteem they get a temporary boost from sleeping with someone(especially someone they’re not supposed to sleep with) even though most men aren’t that hard to seduce if you’re half way decent looking. On the other hand, maybe she just finds you attractive and isn’t a loyal person, so she went for it. Either way, what she did was low as hell.

Did you sleep with the friend as some sort of revenge? I don’t know what’s going to come of this. The girl you’re talking to will most likely go mad if she found out. This shyt is messy, if I was you I’d move on. The friend will try it again till you get caught or she’ll sabotage whatever you’re trying to have with the girl you’re talking to.

I didn't do it as revenge because when ol girl disappeared for a week (now I know why) I called a booty call since I thought she disappeared. The revenge was me telling her I had someone (that went to school with her) on speed dial.

The friend gave me no hints but I do recall her wanting me to hook her up with someone (both my friends guy and girl, ol girl is bi) were on dates. I think she was drunk and horny and didn't like the idea of having a dry night. My date fell asleep and it was just me and her and she pounced.

Here's another kicker....friend was drunk and talking about meeting an x cause I couldnt find anyone for her..she ended up doing just that , that morning. When she got up to leave she was like "hey I got to go meet up with my ex" yooooo didn't you just get smashed? And he won't know either yikes

I know what you mean by competition, it didn't help date was bragging to the friend that drunken night either "he's this and he's that" (even a pornp clip) now ol girl is already tipsy now she looking at me like

 

[Betty Draper]

I know what you mean by competition, it didn't help date was bragging to the friend that drunken night either "he's this and he's that" (even a pornp clip) now ol girl is already tipsy

LOL this is why I never go in detail about who I’m messing with. I don’t think any of my friends would betray me like that, but then again I doubt this girl you’re talking to knew her friend would try it with you. That woman is suspect to me, if she slept with you simply because she was horny it doesn’t reflect well on her values as a person.

 

[Betty Draper]

I don't understand why you would even consider bringing it up to your friend. Like wtf would be the benefit of it? Whether they had a "solid" relationship or not why would you not let it go?

Not everything is about what you benefit personally. I just put myself in her position, I would want to know if that happened to me. As I said, I just felt slightly guilty about keeping it to myself. Hearing other perspectives made me see it in a different light, though.

 

[OfTheCross]

Not everything is about what you benefit personally. I just put myself in her position, I would want to know if that happened to me. As I said, I just felt slightly guilty about keeping it to myself. Hearing other perspectives made me see it in a different light, though.

how would you react if your best friend came to you with that news when you feel like you're in a solid relationship?

 

[Betty Draper]

how would you react if your best friend came to you with that news when you feel like you're in a solid relationship?

I wouldn’t take it well for sure.

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

I’m friends with both of them, I even helped them get together but ultimately the girl is my actual friend. They’ve been together for years, live together and are in a serious relationship. He was drunk and randomly said he loved me at a house party. I was shocked and uncomfortable, he immediately said sorry straight after. I do believe he truly loves her, it’s clear by the way he looks at her. I don’t want them to break up but I’m a little bit conflicted as a friend/woman. I also acknowledge the fact that he said sorry straight after he said it and he was extremely drunk. Should I just let it go or should I tell her?

He more than likely didnt mean it in a romantic way.

 

[Dwolf]

He’s white. No thanks. Plus, I wouldn’t betray my friend like that lol.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Now let me ask you something.

Last weekend this girl I'm talking too and her best friend came over to drink. We all got drunk as hell and I started arguing with the girl Im seeing cause I found out she smashed some dude a couple of days after our first date, then a week later, after testing the waters and realizing she liked me, decided to pursue. I still felt a little betrayed cause she was adamant about no fukk buddy no booty call yet goes and does just that. Now it's me and these rules apply? "Blah blah because I like you realize it now and want more" her bff was on my side and said it was foul too

Anyway date gets super drunk, threw up, goes on the bed and passes out COLD...5 min later her best friend has her tongue in my mouth and we're smashing in the bathroom.

Then we all jump in bed. Sleep. Ol girl wakes up first since she crashed first, tell us she's going to go downstairs to buy rice, leaves us in bed........round 2 . Ol girl came back we turned our backs and pretended to sleep....30 min later we wake up as ol girl was cooking. Her friend dressed, shook my hand and left us.

What is going to come of this? Why did her friend do that?

Sounds like they are both a wash. People do shyt because they can. I would stop talking to the original chick. Nothing but drama to come from it and if I was a fukked up dude keep her friend as something to smash.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

LOL this is why I never go in detail about who I’m messing with. I don’t think any of my friends would betray me like that, but then again I doubt this girl you’re talking to knew her friend would try it with you. That woman is suspect to me, if she slept with you simply because she was horny it doesn’t reflect well on her values as a person.

One thing I learned long ago is to never trust another woman around your man. People will always surprise you.

 

[ColdSlither]

It was the liquor talking..... but that dude has feelings for you. It’s best that you didn’t tell your friend though. We’re only human, and as long as it was a drunk slip of the tongue, it doesn’t matter.

 

[Taadow]

So before anything had come between y'all, you were like his best friend?
The one he used to run and talk to when he and his girl was having problems?
You used to say it would be okay, suggest lil nice things he could do...
But when he go home at night and lay his head down all he seemed to THINK about was you?

you make him wanna leave the one he with?
Start a new relationship with you? This is what you do?

 

[Strapped]

Do you like him

 

[Fukwatutalkinwatisaylaw]

So before anything had come between y'all, you were like his best friend?
The one he used to run and talk to when he and his girl was having problems?
You used to say it would be okay, suggest lil nice things he could do...
But when he go home at night and lay his head down all he seemed to THINK about was you?

you make him wanna leave the one he with?
Start a new relationship with you? This is what you do?

Boy u lame

 

[Voice of Reason]

I didn't do it as revenge because when ol girl disappeared for a week (now I know why) I called a booty call since I thought she disappeared. The revenge was me telling her I had someone (that went to school with her) on speed dial.

The friend gave me no hints but I do recall her wanting me to hook her up with someone (both my friends guy and girl, ol girl is bi) were on dates. I think she was drunk and horny and didn't like the idea of having a dry night. My date fell asleep and it was just me and her and she pounced.

Here's another kicker....friend was drunk and talking about meeting an x cause I couldnt find anyone for her..she ended up doing just that , that morning. When she got up to leave she was like "hey I got to go meet up with my ex" yooooo didn't you just get smashed? And he won't know either yikes

I know what you mean by competition, it didn't help date was bragging to the friend that drunken night either "he's this and he's that" (even a pornp clip) now ol girl is already tipsy now she looking at me like

Breh how old are you? Your life sounds like a teen drama