My friends husband gave me a hug and got hard (UPDATE IN ORIGINAL POST)

[iBrowse]

I ain't no tranny and i hate posting pics of myself. You guys are ruthless on here. Keep in mind i am 5'9 and weigh about 185 pounds, i carry my weight well but i like my size.

Spoiler

:totheeastside:

 

[Miggs]

*side-eye*

I don't hug my friends bfs or husbands. If I do its a church hug. I especially don't if I know they are having problems. If I think someone is attracted to me, I stay away from them like the plauge. There are always signs. I even have trouble picking up on things like that but if I get a feeling that makes me question I just stay away from dude. Why does he have your number?

Its no coming back from a friends guy coming on to you.

You maam are a lady of virtue....Dont allow a problem to even manifest....

I like womens who think these things in advance as opposed to say fukkn around on there fiancee cuz they didnt realize the obvious...

 

[iBrowse]

True. In the end though, some relationships are just doomed. As I said, i think its 100% the couples issue. We as humans tend to like to look outside for why
something is wrong. If @Goddess_Godiva never threw him inappropriate attention, and the husband isn't out trying to find that feeling from other women, it
could be him not being attracted to his wife anymore, or something traumatic that happened to the husband that is killing his passion with the wife. Afterall, she did gain
20(that she admitted to) pounds. Also, the raging erection could have been just bad timing.
Maybe he gets erections just fine watching porn or looking at beautiful women outside of the home?
If it simply didn't work at all, this would be time to see a doctor. Im guessing they didn't explore all options, he stopped trying, and she gained weight, making the situation
worse.

@Goddess_Godiva at best is the spark for real conversation and solutions, at worse a scapegoat for the wife and a point of contention for the husband. It is their
problem, not hers.

QFT

 

[Raava]

You maam are a lady of virtue....Dont allow a problem to even manifest....

I like womens who think these things in advance as opposed to say fukkn around on there fiancee cuz they didnt realize the obvious...

Because you know, even when you don't know...you know. Some women like that kind of thing. They like the fact someone has someone and desires them. Some are all about competition. I am an oblivious person, but I still pick up on someone else’s man being inappropriate. I don't know a woman who doesn't honestly.

One of my friend’s husbands was staring at me at their wedding. I brushed it off like nah can't be. As I was leaving the wedding, he was walking some people out. He went out his way to start a convo with me and say bye. I was polite, gave him the side eye and KIM. I saw him at another friend’s party almost a year later if not a year and he was staring at me again. All the way from across with room most of the night, so much some of my other friends noticed. I never went anywhere near him. They just got divorced last month and I was nowhere near it.

 

[Miggs]

Because you know, even when you don't know...you know. Some women like that kind of thing. They like the fact someone has someone and desires them. Some are all about competition. I am an oblivious person, but I still pick up on someone else’s man being inappropriate. I don't know a woman who doesn't honestly.

One of my friend’s husbands was staring at me at their wedding. I brushed it off like nah can't be. As I was leaving the wedding, he was walking some people out. He went out his way to start a convo with me and say bye. I was polite, gave him the side eye and KIM. I saw him at another friend’s party almost a year later if not a year and he was staring at me again. All the way from across with room most of the night, so much some of my other friends noticed. I never went anywhere near him. They just got divorced last month and I was nowhere near it.

Alot of naive women get sucked into the line of thinking that a friends husband wouldnt or doesnt lol....Friend or husband doesnt matter anymore,they will take an opportunity if given one...One of the things i most appreciate about my chick is shes hip to this and isnt naive into thinking a friends friend or husband is above being inappropriate...You sound like the type of woman who wouldnt carry alot of male friends if any.

Someone has trained you well and i salute that man,brother,cousin,father whomever...

 

[iBrowse]

@Colicat and @At30wecashout dropping gems

 

[Raava]

Alot of naive women get sucked into the line of thinking that a friends husband wouldnt or doesnt lol....Friend or husband doesnt matter anymore,they will take an opportunity if given one...One of the things i most appreciate about my chick is shes hip to this and isnt naive into thinking a friends friend or husband is above being inappropriate...You sound like the type of woman who wouldnt carry alot of male friends if any.

Someone has trained you well and i salute that man,brother,cousin,father whomever...

Trained I got taught to be a lady mostly by my mom and what a man should be by my father. A lot of it is common sense though. What you would want your man/woman to do or not do in situations. That's why I say its rare that at some point a woman didn't see a sign. They may ignore it or think the guy wouldn't act on it, but you know.

everybody is different. I have seen some females claim to be friends and do somethings my friends and I would never. That's them though.

 

[iBrowse]

you don't know how to search threads hun? You lucky you asked nicely

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/im-attracted-to-my-co-worker-and-i-have-a-fiance.220182/

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/spin-off-how-to-successfully-maintain-a-side-dikkk.228093/

Well that explains a lot

 

[Diondon]

Because you know, even when you don't know...you know. Some women like that kind of thing. They like the fact someone has someone and desires them. Some are all about competition. I am an oblivious person, but I still pick up on someone else’s man being inappropriate. I don't know a woman who doesn't honestly.

One of my friend’s husbands was staring at me at their wedding. I brushed it off like nah can't be. As I was leaving the wedding, he was walking some people out. He went out his way to start a convo with me and say bye. I was polite, gave him the side eye and KIM. I saw him at another friend’s party almost a year later if not a year and he was staring at me again. All the way from across with room most of the night, so much some of my other friends noticed. I never went anywhere near him. They just got divorced last month and I was nowhere near it.

 

[RealAssanova]

@Goddess_Godiva

pardon me madam...but i've been pondering what that...thang smells like.
perhaps you and i should meet at my abode and pretend to be interested in a cinematic production, yes?
in short order, it would please me to disrobe you and ravish your secret garden....perhaps even cause discomfort to your spinal column.

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

Trained I got taught to be a lady mostly by my mom and what a man should be by my father. A lot of it is common sense though. What you would want your man/woman to do or not do in situations. That's why I say its rare that at some point a woman didn't see a sign. They may ignore it or think the guy wouldn't act on it, but you know.

everybody is different. I have seen some females claim to be friends and do somethings my friends and I would never. That's them though.

@Cabbage Patch

As the lady CP posted would say

"You cant show yo teeth to every guy you meet"

 

[Raava]

Kind of like that

@Cabbage Patch

As the lady CP posted would say

"You cant show yo teeth to every guy you meet"

What?

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

Kind of like that



What?

Its an old saying.

In other words...

The best way for a woman to avoid messing around with someone or avoid those type of temptations. It's for them to not be friendly with every guy they come across.

 

[Raava]

Its an old saying.

In other words...

The best way for a woman to avoid messing around with someone or avoid those type of temptations. It's for them to not be friendly with every guy they come across.

I know that but you said, I f'd up. That is what I was confused about

 

[SumBlackguyz]

Whats going on here, friends?