Hugging is regional
Up in NYC a full body hug was pretty much standard. Not uncommon for folks to do that French cheek kiss bullshyt too. I think its a product of it being so crowded all the time... u meet some friends in a bar, theres not gonna be room for all that church hug bullshyt.
Down here in NC, not so much. Its like 50/50
shyt gets tricky with married folks with single friends. Real tricky![]()
Man here in Louisiana we give full body bear hugs. You liable to suffocate before the hug is over!

tip, but there are a few who are the victims of insecure women in the same way there are a few women who are the victims of insecure men. Something is going on with them, it's not really about you (unless there's a lot left out of the story). His lack of erection around her has to do with his own anxieties about her. He has no anxieties about you.
She's not helping shyt. I wouldn't be surprised if she has a speck of dirt or two herself that may or may not have anything to do with him. Depends on why she gained weight.
It would be like blaming a chick for her nipples getting hard if she got arosed at all.






