I went over to my good friends house as usual, her husband wasnt there, we starting making magaritas & getting tipsy, she starts telling me how her sex life with hubby hasn't been so great like within the last 6 months. You know this is how women talk. Anyways she says he can't " keep it up" , like never, everytime they try he goes limp. She thinks he is cheating or something. She's frustrated & he's frustrated. She has gained like 20 pounds & she feels like he isn't attracted to her anymore. She says he said that isnt the case but anyways he walks in, goes to kiss his wife all is good, i hadn't seen him in a a few weeks & he walks over to give me a hug...thats when it happened, the hug was a few seconds but he got hard, like rock hard , you could see it straight through his sweat pants. Standing straight up. The expression on his face was pricelessbut the expression on my friends face scared me.
She yelled and starting crying hysterically "what the f*ck is this Mike" , you f&$cking her".... She hit him on his arm, she turned to me, " you f@$ king my husband"....... I was like no, no i'm not.... To make a long story i had to leave cause chic started going ape sh@t crazy, she was throwing /breaking stuff & hollering belligerently. Her husband walked me outside and apologized for his mishap. I left. Its been one day. I want to call her but i'll wait. I never slept with him at all. He's an attractive man but i don't sleep with my friends husband.
How do i console her about this?How do i ever face him again?? Why is dude getting rock hard from a hug with me yet can't keep it up for his wife??
Update: i wanted this thread to die ( kind of felt awkward) & i was debating if i wanted to post this but oh well f@€k it, just wanted to say you all were right. This married man texted me something that has me disturbed. He wants to hit..
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Like really?? What the f@€k. Why has my friend NEVER told me this?? I feel betrayed now i can never talk to him or her again. We've been friends for a few years and this sh@t is just popping up out the blue. I didn't and will not respond to that text by the way. Just foul, so foul
I really dont get what's so shocking, it's this kind of thing that makes me question how naive alot of women can be when it comes to male/female friendships. Like really why would she tell you her husband finds you attractive if she's telling you that her and her husband are having bad times, that would be mad embarrassing. "Me and my husband don't really have sex, but he thinks your hot"
Plus it would have been of zero benefit for you to know this, all it would do is make the situation awkward like it did.
Dude honestly sounds like for everything that happen, he is handling it really maturely and not like a scumbag. He apologized on both ends and is dealing with his wife....
The situation kinda sucks because getting a random hard on isn't something you can really control, I've had it happen to me for ZERO reason out of the blue. And in this situation, well its just unfortunate.
You handling the situation correctly, but you have no right to feel betrayed, it's not something that is your business. You knew they were having problems which is more than enough information. I don't see why you would have to stop associating with the wife. You need to give them space and time, but aint no reason to cut your friend off if she still wants to be cool with you.
Handle the situation like a adult, the dude seem's to be the most level head respectful, and honest about everything. And unless he was trying to do what he did there is no reason to heated at the dude.
Give them there time and space. But don't abandon your girl if she's been your friend for years.
what dude tells there wife there best friend is fukking hot and banging and I would love to fukk...and what wife wouldn't confront her man or even leave the nikka
I've personally had some pretty ho-hum ass girls in my inner circle who were cool people. Too cool.
this would explain some things. Link pls
