My fellow ladies.. (men feel free to comment)

[BellaVenus]

Why are we so vunerable?
We're smart and beautiful yet we allow men to dictate our lives everyday.
Makeup, heels, new weaves, plastic surgery, the list goes on and on.
The things we do for our men... its incredible.
Even when we know that they dont deserve these things, we still attempt to fulfill their twisted fantasy based on pornstars of how "real" day to day women should look like. & this includes the nip-tucked/photoshopped celebrities with pounds and pounds of weave and makeup yet, men somehow believe this is how they look like in real life.. when we all know the truth ladies.

and yes, as women we compete with eachother which contributes to all of the ridiculous things we do to try to achieve imaginary standards.

I'm guilty of it too.. big time.
Even for women with the highest confidence.. we all fall victim to this worldwide epidemic.

Why?..

 

[FatBlackBabyJesus]

its a mans world

simple and plain

yall do that for us

 

[SmarkMero]

Think for you, be your own priority. Ask yourself if what you do is right for you. Stay away from the "Mainstream".

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Wait aren't you married?


Who you trying to look good for other than your husband

 

[BellaVenus]

This is true & i have long accepted this.
Pero like james brown says, "this is a mans world..but it dont mean nothing without a woman or girl".

 

[FatBlackBabyJesus]

play yo position and stop complainin

you gon be happy with the results

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Its just nature.


Took me a while to realize the power of being a man and that basically women's lives revolve around us.


Theres really nothing you can do about this aside from being a fake lesbian.

 

[malbaker86]

I've noticed a high number of the "vulnerable" females grew up w/o fathers.


and like some other have said, it kinda just...how it is

 

[ALLiKNOWizPAIN]

im not going to read what u posted, but i would simp u.

 

[BellaVenus]

Wait aren't you married?


Who you trying to look good for other than your husband

No silly! I mean the things that I do for MY man. Im not a ratchet cheating ho lol. Even when im dead drunk during my ladies nights out Im still the biggest cock block on the planet haha. No man can sway me away from mine.. & im letting this be known to all you simps out chea ;)

& im not married! lol

 

[Sierra Mist]

Yeah but everything a man does in his life is for a woman. You are a man's motivation. Societies have been built over men trying to impress women. That's why men get great careers, cars, money and homes. You have no idea how much power and control you can have over a man simply by having a vagina. Ultimately the only reason you try to look like pornstars or celebs or whatever to compete with other women is to feel like you are validated. The beautiful girls who ARE intelligent realize they don't need to do all that superficial shyt.

Men are in power because men are the ones who are held responsible for the building, protection and maintenance of society.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

No silly! I mean the things that I do for MY man. Im not a ratchet cheating ho lol. Even when im dead drunk during my ladies nights out Im still the biggest cock block on the planet haha. No man can sway me away from mine.. & im letting this be known to all you simps out chea ;)

& im not married! lol

 

[Boogie]

I'm new here so I expect some hate, but this thread is b.s. You're basically playing the victim..yet you admit yourself to contributing to stereotypes! Not only stereotypes of women but of men as well, by saying we all expect these things from women. A real nikka shouldn't expect shyt from his girl but love and loyalty. Everything else fall under those two categories. You can flip the script on this as well, it isn't just women who are out here going all out trying to please their partners. Bottom line is, if yall love each other and in a committed relationship, the happiness should come naturally. You shouldn't have to break your neck to please. I'm not saying you gotta settle, that's a big difference. And if a nikka/bytch can't accept you for what you are then you gotta move on homie.

 

[thegreatest]

Why are we so vunerable?
We're smart and beautiful yet we allow men to dictate our lives everyday.
Makeup, heels, new weaves, plastic surgery, the list goes on and on.
The things we do for our men... its incredible.
Even when we know that they dont deserve these things, we still attempt to fulfill their twisted fantasy based on pornstars of how "real" day to day women should look like. & this includes the nip-tucked/photoshopped celebrities with pounds and pounds of weave and makeup yet, men somehow believe this is how they look like in real life.. when we all know the truth ladies.

and yes, as women we compete with eachother which contributes to all of the ridiculous things we do to try to achieve imaginary standards.

I'm guilty of it too.. big time.
Even for women with the highest confidence.. we all fall victim to this worldwide epidemic.

Why?..

Because from a biological perspective, you exist for us men. And no matter what you say, a REAL man can transform a girl's life infinitely and is worth all those things you mentioned.

Now, like 97% of guys aren't worth it.. But if you get one of the 3% that do, it's like winning the lottery .

Spoiler

For the record, men do everything for women too. Why do you think we want nice things, money, to have abs and shyt? FOR YOU. So there you have it