I'm so lost for words and have nothing to say. My cousin is a good looking 29 year old guy who earns about $150k a year finance, he is an only child and his dad died when he was 1 so it's just been him and his mom. He doesn't have many friends.
He was 'normal' before and dated, dated around, spoke about girls etc. He was just a normal guy. He had not been in love with anyone before. A few months ago we all went to a house party and there was a beautiful girl there. Since that night she's all he has spoken about. He was hooked. We'd never seen him like that. A few weeks in he complained that she never pays for anything. But eventually he just accepted it. I do not know WHAT this girl did. He said the sex was good and i don't think he has had a girl as fine as her before but he was CLEARLY in love/lust with her. He is sure this is his one true love, this is it for him. He said apparently she was the best sex, best everything. She told him she's madly in love with him.
This all happened in 4 months
WELL
WELL
WELL
Today he was speaking to me and told me not to judge him but as a sign of his 'commitment' to her he added her on to:
1. His bank account (to make it joint) where his wages go every month (so that's now joint and no she's not adding anything to it)
2. As an additional holder on his credit card account
3. HE MADE HIS SAVINGS ACCOUNT JOINT!!!! WHICH HAS HIS 200K SAVINGS FROM THE PROCEED OF HIS RECENT HOUSE SALE AND INHERITANCE. HIS LIFE SAVINGS!!!!!!!!
I said did he ask or tell anyone before doing this. He said no, he really cares for her and he wanted to show her he was committed and she suggested a joint account. SO AS ALL HIS ACCOUNTS ARE WITH ONE BANK HE ADDED HER TO ALL 3!!!!
He said he will marry her anyway and trusts her so why not and if she needs to buy anything she will have his cards.
I SAID WHY ADD HER TO THE SAVINGS ACCOUNT THOUGH WITH LITERALLY ALL YOUR LIFE SAVINGS FROM THE HOUSE SALE and YOUR DADS DEATH!
He said 'oh i just thought i'd do all of them'.
BREHS
I'M fukkING SPEECHLESS.
EVEN WORSE. HE HAS TOLD ME NOT TO TELL ANY OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS BECAUSE HE KNOWS HIS MOTHER 'WOULDN'T UNDERSTAND'.
WHAT ARE THE CONSEQUENCES OF THIS?!?!
SURELY IF SHE'S NOT JOINT ON THE ACCOUNT SHE CAN RUN OFF WITH HIS MONEY.
Why are some men so fukking stupid!