My boyfriend uses racial slurs during sex with me and I'm not sure what to do about it.

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Sounds like the old "jungle bunny" fantasy a lot of white boys have when it comes to black women.

Lusting after black women because they perceive them to be "wild & untamed" ....that's the "n i g g e r" element he's getting off on.


Some of these white dudes be on some twisted ego shyt.Using knocking down a sista as a measure of manhood.


They used to have an old legend "You're not really a man until you can please a black woman sexually"

I have a feeling it's still "swirling" around out here:mjpls:
 

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Sounds like the old "jungle bunny" fantasy a lot of white boys have when it comes to black women.

Lusting after black women because they perceive them to be "wild & untamed" ....that's the "n i g g e r" element he's getting off on.


Some of these white dudes be on some twisted ego shyt.Using knocking down a sista as a measure of manhood.


They used to have an old legend "You're not really a man until you can please a black woman sexually"

I have a feeling it's still "swirling" around out here:mjpls:
they just like to do their women like that...even their own.

why do you think white men make these racially charged porn? the asian fetishes? the ghetto gaggers? latina abuse? facial abuse? rape porn? bdsm? they sick violent sexual deviants that like to choke and slap their women during sex. calling them racial slurs is just another aspect of thw power trip they on.
 

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Wenches are just too funny. She is " uncomfortable " with him doing that but she still remain with him. No wonder the divorce rates are so low in BW/WM relationships, the BW take everything from a white guy they wouldn't take from a black man :sas2:.
 

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Thats no excuse

Theres a lot her ass could do. Move out and grt a fukking job for one

And aint nobody getting blatantly called ****** to their faces for a paycheck

Poeple can't just UP and leave otherwise she'll end up in a shelter...she MUST create a plan first
 

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The most telling parts of this to me:

We met at a concert and immediately hit it off.

I am really curious at to what concert this was that draws a middle-aged white man to mack on a black woman
more than 10 years younger than he. Put a pin in that, we'll come back to it...

I lost my job about three months into us dating and ended up moving in with him and he essentially takes care of everything and is happy to do so.

So she must've really been in deep financially if she loses her job and has to find another place to live...
nevertheless, when you move in under somebody elses' roof, this adds a whole new dimension to the relationship.

but when it comes to sex, he says the only way he can get off is to use racial slurs against me because that's what turns him on...
It has started progressing outside of the bedroom now and he will text me or call me during the day when he's at work and ask me things like "how is my sexy ni**er bytch today?"

So wait a minute...he has to use racial slurs during sex to get off.
...But does he have to use racial slurs to "get off" when he's not having sex with you? On a random text? When he sees other Black girls?
What da drilly wit' dat doe?


Honestly I have heard the N-word more from him in the past year than I have in my whole 32 yrs of life.

Okay...this tells me that Baby Gurl is not from da 'hood.

So that leads me back to the previous question: what concert did she meet him at where he might've thought
"Oh...here's one of them ladies that might be down with this sheeit i'm on..." Was she at a Toby Keith concert?


Sometimes I think I can deal with it because I am 32 and the clock is ticking but then again,

ROFL, so she just gonna ride this wave because she know she finna fall off?
Boy boy...being a woman is some chit, mayne...

Part of me wants to wait to finish my Masters then leave him but I am not sure if he might try and sue me or something. Advice?

...aaaand i'm fairly sure that's what's gonna happen.

Advice is what people ask for when they know the answer, but wish they didn't.
 

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they just like to do their women like that...even their own.

why do you think white men make these racially charged porn? the asian fetishes? the ghetto gaggers? latina abuse? facial abuse? rape porn? bdsm? they sick violent sexual deviants that like to choke and slap their women during sex. calling them racial slurs is just another aspect of thw power trip they on.

No.

Only WOC.
 

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No.

Only WOC.
dude them white guys do all women in porn like that but are worse to women of color. i even made that thread o the dark secrets of the porn industry and it was majority white women talking about being violently taken sexually during porn scenes.

they own the monopoly on degradation of individuals sexually but its worse with woc especially black women because of the white supremacy/slavery/colonialism aspect.

edit im not a porn expert but i know what im talking about.
 

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You can't be that dumb breH. Let's say she got a car note, insurance, random credit card bills, etc. He's paying them all.

Just moving out and getting a minimum wage job isn't going to cover all that. And not everyone has family that can help them out when they're down.
maybe the bytch should learn to be independent or get her finesse game up. Tf? Im supposed to feel bad for a shore because she allows dude to finance her life?


Funny tho. Cuz the females I verbally degrade in bed usually finance me never the other way around. Im not paying a girl after she just let mefukk the devil into her.
 

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You can't be that dumb breH. Let's say she got a car note, insurance, random credit card bills, etc. He's paying them all.

Just moving out and getting a minimum wage job isn't going to cover all that. And not everyone has family that can help them out when they're down.

EXACTLY!!!!
 
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