My boyfriend uses racial slurs during sex with me and I'm not sure what to do about it.

[Theraflu]

TBH many black women particularly those who are financially dependent on their man have to face somethings from the white man...

I have a family member who has been racially, physically and verbally abused by the older white man she lives with in London but she can't leave as she's financially dependent.

In interracial relationships with white men particularly if the man is the dominant/leading one some kind of occasional racism is inevitable...it's up to the woman to decide if the perks are worth it....

 

[VelourSocks]

What a retard.. you out here getting called ****** whore and c00n whore and you dont end the relationship immediately. Jesus christ... I can't even respond to how stupid this bedwench is.

 

[Sly Cookin]

"Nice" because he pays for your things. You need the money, so you let daddy say whatever he wants.

 

[b_low_brown]

Give up on brothas, brehettes.

 

[b_low_brown]

"Nice" because he pays for your things. You need the money, so you let daddy say whatever he wants.

Yea she needs to accept this a mutually beneficial business venture, not a relationship. Idk if cacs are capable of unconditionally loving AAs.

 

[Plankton]

I'm always humored at the responses to race stories from a website thats known for making up faceless race stories

 

[King Jove]

Obviously going to racist ass reddit for help is the right decision.

She's obviously either mentally I'll or a complete idiot.

She's basically hopeless.

 

[ℒℴѵℯJay ELECTUA]

I want to push his kkk hood back...on his cock!!!

 

[mannyrs13]

Could this be the same guy?

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/intimacy-intervention-my-husband-uses-racial-slurs-during-sex.104234/

 

[IslandG]

 

[zerozero]

he told me it was only raceplay which is a form of BDSM and I shouldn't take it seriously because he isn't a racist.

just cause it's "play" in his mind doesn't mean you have to agree to it, just like with anything else...

 

[Sauce Dab]

 

[Osmosis]

Can't be real

 

[FukYaFeelings]

Obviously going to racist ass reddit for help is the right decision.

She's obviously either mentally I'll or a complete idiot.

She's basically hopeless.

Honesty I'm surprised by the top comment on there

"DSM is consensual. Both people need to be happy. He isn't taking your feelings into account at all"

 

[MoonGoddess]

TBH many black women particularly those who are financially dependent on their man have to face somethings from the white man...

I have a family member who has been racially, physically and verbally abused by the older white man she lives with in London but she can't leave as she's financially dependent.

In interracial relationships with white men particularly if the man is the dominant/leading one some kind of occasional racism is inevitable...it's up to the woman to decide if the perks are worth it....

It's true even if you take away the racial aspect of it, living and being dependent on someone else can humble you quickly. A lot of guys can be a$$holes when it comes to things like that. The minute you do something they don't like they'll be quick to remind you who pays for shyt and quickly put you in ur place. You just have to decide if that's something ur willing to put up with for free room and board or whatever the situation might be. I will never depend on someone 100% for my well being, been taking care of myself for to long to let someone belittle me like that. My pride won't let me