My boy wants me to date his ex, should I?
- Thread starter Shameonyou
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Serious relationships already have enough dysfunction, as is, w/o the idea of dealing with all the complications that will come w/ dating your boy's ex. That sht has so much potential to blow up in everyone's face.
Box Cutta
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Don't do it. He fukked her and that's that. Y'all would never be able to spend time together as friendly couples without that being in the back of everyones mind.
He was inside that whore. Thrusting. Grabbing. Sweating. Getting unmeasurable pleasure. Savoring all the smells, feels, the entire "essence" of sex. Until he finally couldn't take it anymore and deposited his seed deep in her guts.
And you want to date her?
Imagine you marry the broad and have a son with her. 16 years down the road...you and your family are sitting out on the back porch enjoying a summer evening...and your friend and his wife show up unannounced with a case on some "lets reminisce, friends" type shyt. They get to talking about how everyone first met. And the topic of their history comes up. Your wife sitting their like
Your friends wife sitting their like 
Your friend sitting their like 
Your son sitting their like 
And you're sitting their just waiting to die.
Don't do it.
He was inside that whore. Thrusting. Grabbing. Sweating. Getting unmeasurable pleasure. Savoring all the smells, feels, the entire "essence" of sex. Until he finally couldn't take it anymore and deposited his seed deep in her guts.
And you want to date her?
Imagine you marry the broad and have a son with her. 16 years down the road...you and your family are sitting out on the back porch enjoying a summer evening...and your friend and his wife show up unannounced with a case on some "lets reminisce, friends" type shyt. They get to talking about how everyone first met. And the topic of their history comes up. Your wife sitting their like
Your friends wife sitting their like Your friend sitting their like Your son sitting their like And you're sitting their just waiting to die. Don't do it.
Depends on how long y'all been friends and if you trust him/her
Contrary to Coli (ill) logic everything doesn't have some dark or manipulative ulterior motive. I remember one time I wanted to hook my best friend up with one of my exes. I was tired of homie getting burned by manipulative skanks (he's the sucker for love type) and thought one of my exes would be perfect or him. She was cool, down to earth, very nice and sweet and more his style. Only problem I had with her was she was kind of boring and a push over. I literally had ZERO problem with them hooking up (he fukked it up though)
Contrary to Coli (ill) logic everything doesn't have some dark or manipulative ulterior motive. I remember one time I wanted to hook my best friend up with one of my exes. I was tired of homie getting burned by manipulative skanks (he's the sucker for love type) and thought one of my exes would be perfect or him. She was cool, down to earth, very nice and sweet and more his style. Only problem I had with her was she was kind of boring and a push over. I literally had ZERO problem with them hooking up (he fukked it up though
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Don't ever, EVER, deal with a friend's ex if you value your friendship.
To put a different perspective on things it seems like your friend is with the woman he loves and has no romantic feelings for his ex, why should he care who shes with? .... bottom line just because it didnt work out of both of them doesnt mean it wouldnt work between you two....
Do what you feel is best but remember this.... If you dont want to be with old girl make sure its because you dont want to be with her and not because of how it will look
Do what you feel is best but remember this.... If you dont want to be with old girl make sure its because you dont want to be with her and not because of how it will look
Her still being a virgin changes things IMO.
He never got in them guts, that alleviates the major issue that would be in the back of everyone's mind.
How you know this chic would even go for you though?
LOUD
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As soon as you holla at her she gonna throw the p*ssy
As soon as you holla at her she gonna throw the p*ssy
Shameonyou
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Her still being a virgin changes things IMO.
He never got in them guts, that alleviates the major issue that would be in the back of everyone's mind.
How you know this chic would even go for you though?
shes been giving me signals recently...we always been cool even before my boy knew her...I knew her before he did our families are close
Action Jackson
Can I live
Thats a major detail you should've shared from the start breh breh. As long as his ween wasn't in her vag or mouth there shouldn't be problems. Although, I still wouldn't do it.
How long were they dating? And what kind of relationship do you have with her now?
Shameonyou
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they knew each other for like 10 years but dated for like 2 on and off...I knew her since childhood...our fams are very tight. Im cordial with her...I wasnt trying to step those boundaries so we werent "buddies" but we were cool....I always knew she had favor for me though but she respected my boy and her relationship with him. He couldnt take the fact she was a virgin, and fukked another chick and she found out....I told him he is an idiot. He regreted it, but ultimately realized they werent compatible anyways....
fast forward to now, shes single, we live in the same area...he is married to another woman and lives in cali right now....im on the east coast. He came to visit this weekend and I just asked him to tell me about marriage life...and he was like dawg stop fukking these random bytches and settle down...heck id recommend getting at ole girl that I used to date.
I was like nikka gtfoh at first..but now he got me thinking lol
Action Jackson
Can I live
And this was 4 years ago? You're good breh. She sounds like a good girl.. If you see her out, make a move but I wouldn't aggressively pursue it.